Q: Is is jaaiz to take qasm like this: la amri as in the poem 'haaza la amri fil fiaali badeeu'

Q: Is the common practice of dastaarbandi established in the Ahaadith?

Q: I saw this dream. I live in USA. I am married with kids. I saw that I was in a car accident. There were many cows around the accident. One of the cows caused the accident and then fell on top of the car. This caused all the windows of the car to shatter and lot of the glass from these windows entered my body. It seemed like glass pieces were in my arms legs all over my body. I was taken to the emergency room.

My mother in Pakistan saw a similar dream that I ate something and I got lot of measles or pimples on my body and I had to go to Pakistan and she cared for me so I could get cured.

Any advice or tabeer on this would be appreciated.

Q:

1. Is it appropriate to decorate biscuits with the arabic alphabets on it which is done many times for children learning the letters?
2. My wife was gifted a scarf with the arabic alphabets as a design on the edges. Will it be proper to wear it or not?

Q: Someone gifted me set of wine glasses (tumblers), how should I dispose of it? Could it be given to a kaafir or not?

Q: Can an ustaaz teaching with a salary teach in the musjid so that he may sit for the sunnat I'tikaaf in Ramadhaanul Mubarak? If not, could he continue with his teaching in the masjid and proportionately give back his salary?

Q: My boss is very strange. For nothing he is angry and never satisfed. What wazifa should I recite so that he is satisfied with my work and so that he sees what I am doing? I am doing a lot of work which is not in my contract and I am not being paid enough for doing other peoples work.

Q:  

1. Is putting itr on the kafn permissible.
2. If someone made wasiyah for so and so to bath him, to give him kafan, to pray his janazah salaah ect. Will the wasiyah be fulfilled whereas the wali has more right for these things?
3. What answer can be given about the qamees to the riwayah of Saheeh Boukhari that there was no qamees and imamah in the kafan of Rasulullaah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)?

Q: My husband has given me two talaaqs a long time ago (separately with a year gap). Is it right according to shari'ah that he can either force me or ask me get into a relation with him, as it is his right (as he say so)?

Q: A 87 year old male is permanently taking over 7 different medications, including insulin injections twice daily. After he had rectal operation to remove cancer, he cannot control his bowel and bladder very well. Before this he prayed 5 times daily. The situation is this:

He has to visit the toilet frequently for bladder and bowel. His clothes always have some napaaki on them. He is not fit and healthy enough to perform istinja/ wuzu without making more napaaki. He is only able to have full bath/change clothes every 1 or 2 weeks. He can do istinja/ wuzu and change clothes for Eid prayer, but not daily. Besides this, he is alright and looks fit and healthy for his age, he has no other mobility problems, and we thank only Allah for this.

Mufti Sahib, so if (1) istinja/ wuzu is a problem and (2) changing clothes frequently is also a problem, both problem are affecting this person. What is the ruling regarding salah, i.e. Taharat, tiyamum etc?

He has not read namaz for past 12 months due to these issues, but he desperately wants to read namaz.