Giving hope to the patient

Q: If a person has cancer, is it correct for the doctor to address him in such a manner that indicates to him that he will soon die? Certain doctors feel that they need to tell the patient the hard reality, not realising the depressing effects on the family.

Touching a Utensil Before Taking One's Fardh Ghusal

Q: After a wet dream or sexual relation with the wife when ghusal becomes farz, if I touch any utensil like a glass or plate would it become najis? Or I just washed my face then wiped it on a towel then I used this towel after I have a shower, would my ghusal be valid? Or do I have to wash these before I or someone else uses it. I get confused thinking this is wrong that until I have a shower I should not touch anything with wet hands.