Husband watching porn

Q: My husband gets mad at me for being upset and wanting to end the marriage due to his porn addiction. He is from Pakistan and I am from Canada. He says that once he comes to Canada, he will go to strip clubs to "see" what they do because he is curious. There is no need. He even watches porn for no reason. He doesn't even have a "need" and I never refuse him for this purpose that he might go there. He tells me that there are more better women than me and they will be in jannah and I will be in hell. I told my mother and since then he is saying I am backbiting. I have mental health depression and seizures which come from stress. He always bullies me and puts me down. He tells me to stop this guy and that guy. I tell him that I will only stop you because you are my husband, and he says I am a terrible person.

Please advise me. Am I wrong for wanting my husband to stop childish acts (this is one of many) and stop this sin - especially when he has no NEED for it? I can understand when I am on my periods or when I am far away. But I have been visiting for 1 year and he does it still for fun, his excuse being... Allah created man like this - so its ok and its my nature. Please help me understand what I am doing wrong. I know it's haraam but I feel very suicidal.

Masjids built for collective worship

Q: Those that advocate continuing closure of the Masajid, even for individual worship pose 3 questions:

1. Is it permissible to use the lighting in the Masjid for times other than when collective worship takes place?

2. Did Nabi Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam encourage individual at home or the Masjid?

3. Are Masjids built for collective or individual worship?

These 3 points or questions rather are being used to promote the continuing closure of the Masajid. Are these valid points? I suspect they are not, and have some proofs, but I can’t be certain if they are correct.

Continuous spotting after haidh

Q: Last year in September, October, November and December a girl bled for 7/8 days and then was spotting brown over the 10th day. The amount of days in between each haidh of hers was 22, 21, 20 days. Her tuhoor habit is 20 days and her haidh habit is 9 days.

1. In December, 10 days after her haidh she began bleeding due to a tablet. She bled for 6/7 days and then was only spotting. She counted her haidh after 20 days had passed i.e. from the 2nd 18:50 to 7th January (5 days). 12 days after that she was seeing brown like how she normally sees at the beginning of her haidh (19th) then on the 14th day (21st) she started bleeding red. So she counted her haid as follows: since she bled for 5 days at the beginning of January (which is less than her habit) and then she bled within the 15 days of tuhoor so she counted 9 days as haidh and then began counting her next haidh cycle from 20 days after the 9 days. Was her calculation correct?

2. In February she was spotting throughout her tuhoor period. So she counted her haidh after 20 days of tuhoor had passed. She started bleeding red 13 days after her last haidh. She counted her haidh after 20 days of tuhoor had passed. She stopped bleeding red on the 1st day of her haidh and was only seeing brown and spotting brown thereafter. She counted her haidh according to her haidh habit. She was spotting brown in the whole month.

3. In March she was spotting brown throughout. She started bleeding red after 21 days of tuhoor. She counted her haidh according to her habit due to the spotting exceeding the 10 days.

4. In April She counted her haidh from after 20 days and only started bleeding red after 24 days of tuhoor. In this month she was also spotting brown.

5. In May she counted her haidh after 20 days and only started bleeding red after 25 days. In this month she was spotting brown throughout as well.

Is her calculations correct for the above?

Also she has had previously confusion with certain masaail and a lot of salaah has been missed due to her not making ghusul at the correct time. Or reading salaah while she is suppose to be in the state of haidh and the opposite. Will she have to make qadhaa for all these salaah? 

Disobeying Allah due to not having things the way one wanted

Q: I'm in a difficult situation that I can't solve. I have made dua for 2 years. Since I am now hard-hearted and hateful toward the deen, I have decided to stop practicing on June 27th (in 18 days). I am messaging you because I don't want to do this but the burden is too great, and by Allah not helping me the way and time I want, I want to spend my life disobeying Him so I can enter the Hellfire and receive my punishment.