Keeping the name Sarrinah
Q: Almighty Allah blessed me with a daughter. I named her Sarrinah Bilal. Is this name good for her?
Q: Almighty Allah blessed me with a daughter. I named her Sarrinah Bilal. Is this name good for her?
Q: My native language is Chinese. Chinese language itself contains many daily used common words and phrases that can be classified as containing shirk. Of course, the majority of Chinese speakers never know what shirk is. For example, the Chinese word for “mind, thought, attitude”, which is a commonly used word, literally means “spirit/god” in Chinese. It derives from their kufr belief that humans can become fake so called gods or spirits. I tried very hard to bypass these words, even though they are common, when talking with my mom and other Chinese speakers. However, since the language’s vocabulary system contains many shirk words, a lot of times there is only one word choice, otherwise you cannot express the meaning precisely, or not at all close.
I was talking with my mom and used the phrase that translates into “heavenly (the heaven in Chinese religion) flower falling down” (which means someone is bragging). I know you cannot understand how Chinese works, but it employs a lot of euphemisms and metaphors so the literal meaning maps to a derived meaning. I was talking and it is hard to go against your native language when I was in emotions (it is instinctive; unless I deliberately find a substitute of the word, which may or may not happen as it needs deliberately doing it). Is that kufr (disbelief) to use these words and phrases? But as you can see, a lot of times it is hard or impossible to avoid as the language itself contains these words that has shirk (imagine that english word for “brain”, or “eating a lot” are phrases that contain shirk, how do you speak it?
Q: I slaughtered a few chickens recently for personal use. I have three questions:
1. On one chicken I noticed after cleaning that the main vein in the neck was not cut, is it halal?
2. I am uncertain if I read Bismillah on one. Is it halal?
3. If any are not Halal, what must be done with them?
Q: I want to know in which river or ocean Nabi Yunus (alaihis salaam) was thrown.
Q: A girl is not a virgin and was married previously. This is her second marriage.
When talking about her marriage with mother, the girl said something that her mother understands that her daughter wants to marry. Her father then performed her nikaah without the daughter present. A few days after nikaah, the boy and girl engaged in sexual intercourse. Is this ok?
Q: If a non-Muslim man wants to become a Muslim to marry a Muslim woman. So is that permissible? Will his intention change, even though he is willing to convert due to true love he has for a Muslim girl.
Q: Is mint alcohol halaal?
Q: I am a married woman. I work from home giving extra lessons. I have loaned most of my savings money to family members. (interest free)
Do I need to pay zakaat on this money that I have loaned them?
Since I do not have much savings left; if I cannot afford the zakaat amount; will I have to sell my jewellery from my mother and my wedding jewellery to pay it?
Q: Nowadays, there are many arguments about three talaaqs and halaalah. The problem is that most people do not have the correct understanding about three talaaqs and halaalah. Can you please enlighten us in this regard?
Q: It is not permissible to shave underarms during periods, what is the ruling for shaving moustache or other facial hairs ?