Getting to know the girl before marriage
Q: There is this ayah in the Quran "and that each person will only have what they endeavoured towards".
I understand that it is about afterlife and has nothing to do with wordly affairs. One of my friends used this in the context that you have to make effort to find a spouse and for that they were willing to get into talking stage with someone in the absence of a wali. Do I have to make an effort in finding a spouse and is talking to someone for that matter allowed?