Waswasas regarding Talaaq

Q: My husband suffers from severe waswasas. We are newly married and both of us are extremely in love and happy with each other. However due to his waswasa problem he keeps on getting thoughts in his mind to say the words of divorce. This condition has become so severe that he cries continuously for hours because he is scared that he is going to loose me. Thus we have consulted with an Aalim an marriage councillor and he has told my husband to make a shart that divorce will only take place after consultation with an Aalim and when another Aalim is a witness(to combat the waswasa) so now we would like to know if due to waswasa he says the words will talaaq fall? (N.B. he has a history of severe waswasas in wudhu and salaah so much so that he repeats his witr about 12 times because of waswasa whether he read qunoot or not) please help! If there is any other solution it would be appreciated if you include it in the reply.

Finding a Halaal job

Q: I live in the UK and am in need of a job in order to pay off my loan. However, I cannot find a halal job despite continuously searching for one. If I don't get a job, my loan amount will keep increasing. In this circumstance, is it permissible to work in clerical or I.T. related roles for haram companies (i.e. entertainment companies, banks, etc)?

Wife wants her own space

Q: Before my marriage, my in laws seperated a section of their house for me. It is a complete seperate house, with my own kitchen etc. However, when I just got married I used to cook with my mother in law because my husband had just started working and we didn't have a fridge/freezer ect. Now it is over one year and I have everything I need, but my husband refuses to allow me to cook on my own. I have a good relationship with my mother in law الحمد الله but I feel I need my own space. He says that I'm just being difficult and since I don't have any major problems with her its un-necessary. Please advise. Is it wrong of me to want my own space?

Wazifa for husband to stop cursing

Q: My husband is in another country and I live in a different country with my kids from my husband. Lately he's been cursing me very badly with bad names that I can't mention right now and is disrespecting me. Give me a dua that my husband can stop cursing me with wrong names and he gets his USA visa and comes home safe Insha Allah to me and my kids. I have started his paper work. Someone gave me this dua to read against him so he can apologise to me and not disrespect me again, is this the right dua to read? I have the attachment below please help me, give me a dua I can read that my husband stop cursing me with such bad names and gives me respect and supports me. Someone told me to read this dua: "O Allah, make my hearing and sight strong, keep them strong until I die. Lead me to victory over those who have wronged me, and allow me to see vengeance." ( al-Adab al-Mufrad)

Wasaawis and doubts

Q: My question is regarding istinjaa and relieving oneself/washing etc. I suffer from a lot of doubts and Alhumdullilah by the will of Allah I am trying to get rid of them. I have a lot of doubt and worry however when going to the bathroom and have a couple of questions: 

1. After completely squeezing and wiping urine from my private part I use water to wash as well. sometimes when washing I see that a very tiny droplet of water has touched the hair of my thigh and i start pouring water there and on the other thigh and start to get obsessive, this is starting to affect my skin also. Is this water that touches my private part after completely impure? (this is when washing after completely squeezing all urine drops off and wiping with toilet paper)

2. After passing stool, because of my doubt I do not know if I am clean an end up looking at the tissue after wiping to see if there is any stool on it. Sometimes when looking as well I see a tiny black dot which could be thread from underwear, or hair even some skin maybe and I carry on washing and wiping wasting toilet paper and water. How many times does a person need to wash before becoming clean? 

Please advise as these doubts trouble me and I end up pouring water over the taps and jugs messing the bathroom as I think my finger touched there or some water touched my finger and this might have messed somewhere else.