Q: Can you tell me how to prepare and what can people do to survive in a war. Third world war is coming, can you tell me some dua and zikr you can say during war. I follow hanafi fiqh?

Q: My question is regarding istinjaa and relieving oneself/washing etc. I suffer from a lot of doubts and Alhumdullilah by the will of Allah I am trying to get rid of them. I have a lot of doubt and worry however when going to the bathroom and have a couple of questions: 

1. After completely squeezing and wiping urine from my private part I use water to wash as well. sometimes when washing I see that a very tiny droplet of water has touched the hair of my thigh and i start pouring water there and on the other thigh and start to get obsessive, this is starting to affect my skin also. Is this water that touches my private part after completely impure? (this is when washing after completely squeezing all urine drops off and wiping with toilet paper)

2. After passing stool, because of my doubt I do not know if I am clean an end up looking at the tissue after wiping to see if there is any stool on it. Sometimes when looking as well I see a tiny black dot which could be thread from underwear, or hair even some skin maybe and I carry on washing and wiping wasting toilet paper and water. How many times does a person need to wash before becoming clean? 

Please advise as these doubts trouble me and I end up pouring water over the taps and jugs messing the bathroom as I think my finger touched there or some water touched my finger and this might have messed somewhere else.

Q: My husband had an affair then married without my knowledge. She eventually left him cause he refused to leave me. I am lost as I have just found out she gives him ultimatums either me or her. A fasak is sacred, there is no making up according to my knowledge. Then to top it all messages from another female he is having an affair again. I am so hurt. I am the only one working. People say I should have myself seen too cause there is too much hasad on me. I feel Allah protects us all. I was told not to get off my chair meaning not to leave my husband. But what must I do because he clearly doesn't love me. I am the only one working and cannot get leave to go to MJC. I am the sole provider for my family. He refuses to leave me on paper but he has moved out and says he doesn't want me. This happened before then he just pitches up again speaks nicely then comes home. This time its the worst and I feel hurt and betrayed. I need counselling. I don't know where to go for this Please advise.

Q: I need assistance with naming our daughter, please can you assist with proper meanings and spellings of the following names and which would be most suitable:

AAIRA

AMAANI

ASMAA

AMELIA

HANNAH

MAAHIRA

MAARIYA

AMELIA is currently our 1st choice , is the spelling correct as well?

Q: What is Mehr-Fatimi and how is it calculated?

Q: If semen was ejaculated from its place of origin with desire but at the time of it coming out of the penis there was no desire, ghusl will be required. So for instance semen came out of its place of origin with desire, but before it could start coming out of your penis you squeezed and held your penis and thus stopped it coming out and after that you waited for your desire to subside and you let go of the squeeze upon which the sperm came out without desire, ghusl will be fard required [heavenly ornaments, page 73, point 1].

My question is what if you had an orgasm and semen was ejaculated from its place of origin and before it could come out of your penis you took forty steps, slept or urinated and after that sperm came out of your penis without desire would you still require ghusl?

Q: What is the ruling on Optional Health cover through work for both myself and family? The provider is Bupa. I would be paying a fixed cost a month around £100 a month to cover my family or £50 to cover myself only that. Please could you clarify if the above would be permissible?

Q: I am a single female and have been studying something in the business field not really realising the extent of this. I started working at a company
recently and there is a male senior who I have to approach when I do not know what to do. 

1. Should I be leaving this job?
2. If don't end up working after the studying will it be a waste I commited?

Q: Is there any dua I can pray in the shop for a worker that is troubling, comes drunk to work, if he don't want to come to work he doesn't come. I need something to pray so either he comes right or he leaves the job. I can't fire him, he has to leave on his own. Jazakallah

Q: If one can never marry, say due to disabilities, will zina or any other forms of sexual satisfaction be permissible?