Q: My husband had an affair then married without my knowledge. She eventually left him cause he refused to leave me. I am lost as I have just found out she gives him ultimatums either me or her. A fasak is sacred, there is no making up according to my knowledge. Then to top it all messages from another female he is having an affair again. I am so hurt. I am the only one working. People say I should have myself seen too cause there is too much hasad on me. I feel Allah protects us all. I was told not to get off my chair meaning not to leave my husband. But what must I do because he clearly doesn't love me. I am the only one working and cannot get leave to go to MJC. I am the sole provider for my family. He refuses to leave me on paper but he has moved out and says he doesn't want me. This happened before then he just pitches up again speaks nicely then comes home. This time its the worst and I feel hurt and betrayed. I need counselling. I don't know where to go for this Please advise.

Q: I need assistance with naming our daughter, please can you assist with proper meanings and spellings of the following names and which would be most suitable:

AAIRA

AMAANI

ASMAA

AMELIA

HANNAH

MAAHIRA

MAARIYA

AMELIA is currently our 1st choice , is the spelling correct as well?

Q: What is Mehr-Fatimi and how is it calculated?

Q: If semen was ejaculated from its place of origin with desire but at the time of it coming out of the penis there was no desire, ghusl will be required. So for instance semen came out of its place of origin with desire, but before it could start coming out of your penis you squeezed and held your penis and thus stopped it coming out and after that you waited for your desire to subside and you let go of the squeeze upon which the sperm came out without desire, ghusl will be fard required [heavenly ornaments, page 73, point 1].

My question is what if you had an orgasm and semen was ejaculated from its place of origin and before it could come out of your penis you took forty steps, slept or urinated and after that sperm came out of your penis without desire would you still require ghusl?

Q: What is the ruling on Optional Health cover through work for both myself and family? The provider is Bupa. I would be paying a fixed cost a month around £100 a month to cover my family or £50 to cover myself only that. Please could you clarify if the above would be permissible?

Q: I am a single female and have been studying something in the business field not really realising the extent of this. I started working at a company
recently and there is a male senior who I have to approach when I do not know what to do. 

1. Should I be leaving this job?
2. If don't end up working after the studying will it be a waste I commited?

Q: Is there any dua I can pray in the shop for a worker that is troubling, comes drunk to work, if he don't want to come to work he doesn't come. I need something to pray so either he comes right or he leaves the job. I can't fire him, he has to leave on his own. Jazakallah

Q: If one can never marry, say due to disabilities, will zina or any other forms of sexual satisfaction be permissible?

Q: There are wazz (lectures) in our area at every masjid once in a year but the wazz continues almost whole night on the loud speakers and this disturbs the non muslims and even muslims in sleeping and fajr salah. Is this type of wazz  allowed by disturbing others?

Q: Does a female have to take a ghusal after istihaza? If she did not does she have to make qaza for salaah read in that period?