Hadith Query

Q: I have seen this in posts but without any reference. Is it possible to get the exact text and where its from?

Jibrail (alaihissalam) once came to The Holy Prophet (Sallallahooalahi-Wasallam) and said Allah has given me the knowledge to count every leaf on earth,every fish in the sea, every star in the sky and every particle of sand on earth, but there's only one thing I cant count. Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) asked Jibrail (Alayhis Salaam) what is it? Jibrail (Alayhis Salaam) replied: When one of your Ummah recites Durood or salaams to you the blessing Allah showers upon him becomes impossible for me to count.

How should one explain to one's mother that what she is involved in is wrong?

Q: My mother is 60+ and everyday she sits on her laptop and phone chatting to various men/boys (some of them old enough to be her sons) although this does not interfere with her namaaz I still believe this is wrong! When I confront her about it, she get so upset and throws my mistakes in my face. She is on all the dating sites and chats to various men from around the globe! Please help! How can I make her undrstand that what she is doing is a sin as she doesn't see it that way?

Wife refusing to have relations with her husband due to him taking a second wife

Q:

  1. I want to know that if a muslim man does second marriage and his first wife says that since you have married for the second time I will not have physical relations with you, Does this mean Divorce?
  2. My second question is under such relation is the man bound to give equal time to both his wives?

Marital and domestic problems

Q: I really like someone. Intially when I introduced him at home everyone agreed and our wedding date was all fixed. There was a delay of six months in our marriage and since we used to see each other frequently and to stay away from gunah we got our nikkah done in a gathering of our close friends in a mosque. None of our family members were part of our nikkah. Later we came back to pakistan so we can officially get married. My finance had a robbery at there home and he requested my dad to help him if he can and it will be a loan on him he has an investment back in canada and will return the money. On the other hand my dad took it in a way that he had demanded money and didn't
even let him explain not even once and broke the marriage 10 days before the wedding. After that my dad used his resources to shut him and his family up and wants me to marry some one else. Now some people are saying that our nikkah is not valid because there was no wali in that nikah. I know I should have not done the nikah but I really want to stay with him and I am quiet because I know my father will never ever agree on this. He even said that even if I take a stand he would not agree and he was against this marriage since day one but was not showing it to me because I wanted it. Can you please shed some light on this matter and help me in this regard?