Inhaling steam while fasting

Q: I know that inhaling steam or smoke while fasting causes the fast to break. My question is that when cooking food while fasting, there is a great risk that steam will be inhaled. Will it be necessary to take precautions to avoid the steam by keeping a distance from the cooking food as much as possible? In the case where one inhales steam unintentionally, will one's fast break?

Marital problems

Q: I am married and have kids. Through out my marriage I had a lot of problems. I stayed because of my kids. The issues were mainly my husband going out with bad company, staying out late, people seeing him at clubs, or people saying he's on drugs. I have now found out that he is taking drugs. He refuses to admit it. Says he isn't. He's not working at the moment, he is trying everywhere for a job. What must I do? I can't afford kids school. I'm not thinking straight. I only cry and feel helpless. I want to leave. What does Mufti advise?

Dream

Q: I just came back from Umrah and I read istikarah there for marriage to a certain boy. I had a few dreams, please help me interpret them.

The first dream I had I was looking at wedding dresses while my brother was on the phone with the boy. They were laughing and happy. I can't remember what they were talking about.

Another dream I had was my mother was looking at the boys picture and was smiling and I got shy and turned away.

I also dreamt of the boy standing in Madina outside the haram wearing a black kurta.

Another dream was I walked into a room that was empty and completely white, in the dream I thought to myself is this a hospital ward or what? I stood at the door of this white room.

In Makkah I dreamt of the name of Allah Al Malik, it was written in Arabic and in black and I was looking at it.

Please help me as I am so confused. I don't want to make the wrong decision. Divorce has become such a norm and I don't want that to happen to me.