What dua should a cancer patient recite?

Q: 

  1. A person I know is stressed due to his brother having cancer and keeps on worrying for him. He finds it hard to concentrate on his family and work. Is there any dua I could pass on to him so that he is less stressful and could concentrate on his family and work?
  2. The patient does not know that he has cancer as they haven't told him, is it ok if they keep it hidden from him?
  3. Please give me a dua for that cancer patient?

Questions relating to tahaarat

Q: 

  1. The splashes of water when washing our private parts in istinja is paak or napaak?
  2. The water which wets our feet due to movement of our hand in these situations is pure or impure?
  3. Our hand with which we have cleaned those areas if it touches our clothes will the clothes be naapak?
  4. Once this happened and where I thought that my clothes has touched my hand, I washed it with water and offered namaz and after some time I began to think that i washed the wrong place. Now I don't know was my namaaz valid?
  5. When we wash our hands aftr istinja and the sleeves fall down and it gets wet, do we have to wash our sleeves or not? 

Splashes on one's clothing

Q: When I went to the bathroom I felt a splash of water or urine on my hand, I don't remember now. I didn't see it that time. I thought I will wash there but when I stood up, my sleeves fell down and I don't know where it was. 

My question is, is my sleeve napaak in both cases if it was impure water or if it was urine or if I don't remember what it was?

Forgetting in Salaah

Q: I have short term memory problem when I am praying salah. Sometimes I don't know how many rakat (rakah) I did, what shall I do then? I always don't know how many sajdah I did. If I did 1 or 2 sajdahs I don't remember. If I do more than 2 sajdah or do less than 2 sajdah would my salah be valid? I don't know if the cause of my problem is shaytaan. If I don't know how many rakaats and sajdah I did, what can I do? If I don't know, can I just do 1 more rakat or 1 more sajdah?​

Reciting duas and making zikr during haidh

Q: What can a woman can recite during her periods? Can she recite qurani duas? Can she recite duas of prophet ( Sal-Allah ho Ali hay wasalam)? Can I recite la ill aha illa unta subhanaka innii kuntu minuzalemeen during periods? Is there any special permission required to do this dua as I recite it often without wadu (when I'm not in periods) and many times a day without counting. What can we recite when a girls head isn't covered?

Wazifa for children to become pious

Q: A friend of mine during her pregnancy used to watch wrong films. She also had a habit of masturbation. Now she has a 3 month old son and she is worried that her son will become bad when he grows up. She now is a good Muslim. She want that you tell her any waifza that she can blow on her son for good and pious future. Give her some wazifa for her forgiveness.

E-tolls

Q: I would like to know if it would be Jaiz-correct to use interest-Riba money to pay for eTolls in Guateng.

The points to consider are the following :

1) There are no new roads that were built. These were all existing roads that have been improved by SANRAL.

2) The roads improvement were also done as part of the infrastructure improvement deal for the 2010 world-cup.

3) The alternative routes are not in a good condition and in most cases are not even suitable to be used as alternative routes to and fro from travel destinations.

4) The government already imposes high taxes and specific road taxes via the road levy that are paid via the price of fuel.

5) The consumer-citizen was not correctly consulted by the state to impose such fees on roads (via vote or poll) and the legislation was pushed through very aggressively by the ruling party and those that benefit financially from the eToll income.

6) The majority of the income from eToll leaves the country and is paid to a company in Europe.

7) The improvement of the roads has benefited movement of traffic in some areas, and eased congestion at some peak times.

8) The roads are more safe to drive on and are better lit up in certain areas at night.

As this is a current hot debate in our area, your URGENT attention and response thereof would be most highly appreciated.