Marital problems

Q: Mera shohar sirf hokam deta hy or meri koi bat nai manta na muje mere ma bap ke ghar jane deta hy shadi ko srf 1 sal howa ma ke ghar 1 he dafa gae hon .. shohar ka ghr karachi me or ma ka peashawar me hy ... shohar khud dubai me hy or sasural me me akeli hon ma bap ke ghar bht jane ka dil karta hy par nai chorta kahta hy Allah ne muje ye haq deya hy chaheye me choron ya nai .. mera shohar baki to bht acha hy par meri her bat us ke smne ghlt or onki her bat sai hy chaheye wo ghlt b ho ... me jab ma bap ke ghar jane ki bat karty hn to mere ma bap ko bad dua deta hy ke Allah inko mot de de meri jan in se chot jae.. muje damki deta hy ke onki zindagi barbd krdonga mere bhai ko br br fon krta hy ke tmhari ma idr fon nai kare or muje fon krne nai deta me chup chup k fon krdety hn ... meri ma or bap akele hy ghar me koi nai hy bhai ki shadi nai howe wo swat me kam karta hy .. or ma bht bemr hy .. me apne shohr se kahty hn muje jane de ap waise b idr nai hy me idr room me bet bet ke tang hon idr b bahr nai chorta din rat mbl pe bt krty hy hum .. baki bht acha hy likan maa ke ghar nai chorta .. din rat wazife karty hn pir b on pe k6 asar nai hota .. maa ka nam lon to bs jagra karke mbl behan se kah ke le leta hy ... meri 3 nand hy 3no ki shadi howe hy pir b idr rahty hy .. on ke shohar ne in ko ma ke ghar betaya hy ke kharacha on ka na ho on ke shohar b dubai me hy.. ye log din rat gomty rahty hy ... mera b dil karta hy ke me b maa ke 7 rahon... roz ghar me larhai jagre hoty hy .. sas ko 3no betiyan pata nai kia kia kahke mere opar sare shoro hojaty hy ... me idr tang hon bhtttt zaida .. mene apne shohar se kaha me in ki tara maa k ghar salo sal nai raongy srf 1 mahene ke liye jane de ... par jane nai deta shadi ke bad sirf 1 dafa maa ke ghar gae hon 1 sal shadi ko hogaya hy ... pahle b larai jagro se maa k ghar 3 mahene bad gae ty abi to full zid pe ara hy .. ap koi wazifa bata de ke shohar bat mane muje maa ke ghar jane de .. idr me jab qurran majid parhty hn to b kahty hy qurran parhty hy amal nai karty or khud idr is ghar me sirf sas nemz parhty hy baki nande dewar sasur koi nemz nai parhta .. jab room ka darwaza kolty hn to kahty hy begam samne bety hy jab band karty hn to kahty hy medam darwaza band karke bety hy me in sub se bht tang hon ... shohar in mamlo me pahle sath deta ta abi parwa nai karta .. apki shukar gozar hongy ...

A: Aap apne meeke chali jaaye.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)