Q: The question below is with regard to an assignment. Kindly assist with a brief response.
1. What is the proper manner of vetting potential grooms?
2. After the Nikaah, what is the correct manner of meeting the spouse?
Q:
1. What is the Shari' status of getting married? Is it Fardh, sunnah muakkadah, wajib, etc.?
2. What should be the niyah of a person who wants to get married?
3. What is the sunnah method of getting married. i.e. How did the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) conduct marriages in his time.
Q: I am currently studying, but my future wife's father is sick. Some people suggested that I get married first and then continue studying. At least the father will see his daughter getting married.
What I am confused about is, isn't it cruel if I haven't provided for her financially or spiritually?
I think it will be difficult to finish college while working.
Q: Is it permissible to spend money on décor on the occasion of the waleemah? People spend a lot of money on flowers and draping the stage etc. Does this fall under israaf or is it permissible to do this if a person has the money and is not borrowing money to do it?
Q: When a man sends a proposal for a woman, how fast should the nikaah be done?
Q: According to the Faqahaa, is marrying more than one wive amongst sunnat because of which a person will get rewarded? (meaning not aadiya) Especially in today's time, by doing this Mubarak action the love of it will enter peoples hearts and the wrong belief that it's naoothobillah not right will go.
Q: I would like to know about the prayer that the bridegroom and bride pray together after nikah and before consuming their marriage. How is it performed and why? I will be getting married soon and have heard about this from an old person and he has not been able to give me more details. All the others to whom I have asked, no one knows about it.
Q: Can a couple consumate their marriage without having to live with each other permanently? Are there any rulings to wanting to live separately until the husband can fully provide for him and his wife?
Q: How to deal with forced marriages Islamically?
Q: Is it permissible to get married and not have kids?