Advice

Q: Please pray for me and give me guidance. My soul is so lost and broken. I am a sinful Muslim and have committed many sins against Allah. And now I realise the errors of my ways. I am in a very bad place and don't know how to gain my self respect back. I am in love with a man that does not love me, we are not married but were at one point intimate friends and hoped to be married. But things changed and he stopped loving me. However since then we have just been friends. Me being in the hope that he would realise that I love him much and he would marry me. However all this man has done is to take advantage of my feelings play with my emotions and leave me feeling like a worthless human taking advantage of my kindness. I know I probably deserve what I am getting now. But I am so sad and in despair. I need some help and support and don't know what to do. My situation is so bad I have been humiliated and shamed by him through the way he speaks to me and the things he does and how he constantly toys with my emotions. I need help please advise me on how I can get it together and loose the love of this man from my heart for I have tried for 10 years or more. He will not leave me alone always calling me and manipulating me and I am weak and always fall for his traps and he uses my friendship to make fun of me for amusement. Yet I can't fight this or see this for what it is. Please give me a prayer or wazifa. I know my request is shameful but I have no one to turn to.

Q: If a husband cheats on his wife and has illegal relationships with other girls what should a wife do?

Q: My friend was in a relationship with a girl and they committed zina. Then the boy repented and masha allah is praying regularly now. But the girl is contacting him and telling him that she loves him and wants to marry him. What should the boy do?

Q: I have sexual problems with my wife. She is now 40. She has no desire for sex. If I want to do, she refuses. What should I do in this case?

Q: I was working in one of world's best company for the last two years. Due to some dispute with the manager I resigned in the month of April. Since then I am looking for a job but I cannot succeed. I have been offering namaz and have been fasting throughout this month of Ramzan but still nothing is working out for me. I have completed few wazifas as well but it didn't help me either. Can you please suggest for me what should I do. I am desperately looking for a job and all my savings are about to expire.

Q: I wanted to ask that if someone cannot continue relations with his relatives, will his prayers be accepted or not? If not, then will all his prayers and worship for Allah Ta'ala be accepted or gone to waste? 

Q: I am married for the last 10 years. I have no children because my husband is infertile. The sperm count for my husband is nill and we have tried different methods for a baby but have not succeeded. I am in great trouble right now, not because of the baby, but because of the attitude of my husband towards me. He does not like me from the very begining of my marriage and I always demand love and attention from his side. We are currently living like two unfamiliar people in the same home. He does not want to sit with me, sleep with me and always taunts me. Also, he does not have any romantic feelings with me for which I always fight. He spends his all his time watching tv. I spent these 10 years with great patience and I always took care of him and his relatives. But now I cannot bear any more. How can I spend my remaining life because I have no children and my husband does not even love me. Although he fulfils my basic needs but not by heart.

Q: I am in love with one girl for the past 10 years. 5 years ago she got married to another person and she is not happy with her husband because he beats her daily and he is not keeping her happy. She still loves me and she is in contact with me. She says that she can't live without me. She wants to marry me but her husband is not giving her a divorce. She said that she will leave her home and she will marry me. Is this nikaah valid in Islam and can we marry and can be happy inshallah. What is the right way and procedure.

Q: I am facing a big problem that some thing is running on my head since three or four years. This may be black magic. I need your help I cannot pray or read Quran. If I start this this thing becomes angry and hurts me everywhere. Please help me out of this.