Advice

Bringing one's wife onto Deen

Q: I am about to get married in few days. The girl who is going to be my wife (In shaa allah) doesn't follow Islamic dressing and hijab. I did talk to her about this in front of her mehram, she says she'll follow it once it comes from her own heart and it shouldn't be forced upon her.I know this will be a sensitive matter after our wedding as she might think that i am forcing hijab on her. So please guide me, after my marriage how do i make her dress in islamic way without forcing it upon her as forcing is forbidden in islam. 

Using neighbours WiFi

Q: I'm 15. I live in a house where there is no WiFi connection. I had requested my parents to get a WiFi connection. But they refused as they worried it might harm me. A few months ago, I asked for a neighbor's WiFi and they gave me their password. Will it be halal for me to use that? Please keep in mind that I only use the WiFi for educational and Islamic purposes. 

Allowing one's wife to visit her parents who have bad habits

Q: Somewhere I read that a husband should allow his wife to visit her parents home weekly, but what if her parents teach her things which affects me and my family (husband's family) like they teach her not to do work in the husband's home etc. To avoid such problems, I don't want her to go to her mother's home.

My mother in law and father in law usually fight with each other, sometimes they also hit each other and exchange very bad words and scold that's why I usually tell her that I will also accompany her whenever she goes to her mother's house and tell her that I won't leave you there alone. By this she sometimes feels bad and behaves differently. I told my mother and father in law as you people fight I'm afraid to leave my wife in your home, and suggested to them to read fazail e Amal daily for their improvement. Please advise me what to do.

Informing one's parents about one's fiancees past

Q: My father introduced me to a potential spouse. We talked on the phone and through texting got to know each other better. We feel we are very compatible. He mentioned to me in his talks that he had been married about 9 years ago. He was 23 and she was 56 years old. Now he is 32 and she is 65 years old. The marriage lasted for about 2 years. He told me the reasons for the marriage and why it ended. He showed me all his documents and assured me that I could ask all the questions and that they would be answered. He is of good character and he has wants to become a hafiz In Sha Allah. He has memorized the 30th juz and surahs such as Surah Mulk, Surah Yaseen, etc. He has told me only about him being divorced as in our culture a Muslim divorced person is viewed as such a taboo. He had sure that I be aware of his divorce as I would be the one becoming his spouse. Is it necessary for him to tell my parents before getting the married to me, knowing that they will reject him based on being a divorced person?