Mutafarriqaat

Mahramo ke saamne sharam owr haya

Q: Main 26 years ki hun. Hamare ghar main 4 members hain. Father, mother aur hum 2 brother sister hain. Brother mujse 2years chota hai aur wo mujse kafi close hai hum ek dusare se apni problem share kerte hain. Hamare ghar main garmi k mossam (summer session) main bilkul bareek T-shirt ya kameez pente hain aur jab loadsheeding hoti hai to us waqt hum shirt nahi pente GARMI ki waja se ye hum bachpan(childhood) se kr rahai hain mama papa bhi yehi krte hain magar loadsheeding k doran full naked nahi hote half naked hote hain yani shalwar peni hoti hain.aur bhai aksar mama k brazier se paisay(money) bhi nikal leta hai jab mama roti bana rahi hoti hain ye maine para bhi tha mahram k samne topless ja sakte hain is main koi Gunah nahi hai. kal bhai ne mujse apni ek problem share ki k wo mere breast dehker khudhi discharge hogaya. Usne bola usne penis ko touch bhi nahi kia khudhi hua hai discharge aur phele bhi ho chuka hai. Bhai ne muje bola uske dil main mere liye ya mama k liye koi feeling nahi hain wo sirf breast dehkkar discharge hojata hai. Mere bhai ne mujse pocha agar wo is tarhan discharge hojaey to is main koi gunah to nahi hai? mera apse bhi yehi sawal hai k is main koi GUNAH to nahi hai agar bhai muje topless dehkar discharge hojaey?

Tawbah ke baare me wasaawis

Q: Mein apny gunahoun pe sharminda hun. Mujhy sukun nahi ata. Dar lgta hy Allah maf nah krenge. Ek taraf dil krta hy taubah krti rahun gunahoun sy bachoun to mafi milegi. Pr lgta hy Allah maf na kren. Mein chahti hun imaan mazbot hojae mjhy sukun ajae. Ap he kuch btayen imaan ki mazboti k lye.

Saas ke saath achcha sulook rakhna

Q: Mera swaal hay mere saas ed me kapre dilaya  mene ed me phena nahi mere ami ne dilaya wo pehna   meri saas  ne bola ab tumko kabi bi koe chiz nahi dugi  to mofti sahab meri saas ko guna hoga or bartan kare mere se dulati hai kam wali masi nahi rakhti  meri saas mera usband achaa khsa kmata hai meri saas ko guna hona ke nahi?

Mard ke lia pairon mein mehndi lagana

Q: Main Ye Janna Chahta Hoon Ki Kya Mard Ke Liye Pairon(feet) Mein Mahndi(henna) Lagana Ja'iz Hai. Main Darul Uloom Deoband Ki Website Par Fatwe Pardh Raha Tha, Aur Usmein Ek Fatwe Mein Likha Tha Ki Mard Ke Liye Apne Hath aur Pair Mein Mendi Lagana Makrooh Hai. 

link- http://www.darulifta-deoband.org/showuserview.do?function=answerView&al…

Lekin Mere Ek Dost (Jo Khud Aalim Hain) Ne Mujhe Btaya Ki Mard Pairon Mein Mahndi Laga Sakta Hai. Is Bare Mein Wazahat Karein Ki Kaunsi Baat Durust Hai. Ya Is Mas'ale Par Ulama Ka Ikhtelaaf Hai?

Birthday manana

Q: Larki ko birthday k din kya karna chahiye? Kya uska birthday celebrate kiya ja sakta hai or birthday gift dena chahiye ya nahi? Agar ha to bobi ko kis tarah ka gift de sakte hai?