Talaaq

Q: Mera sawaal ye he ke maine meri biwi ko teen talaak ek saath di. Us waqt me islam me ziyada nahi samjta tha, phir galti ka ehsas hua ki ye galat ho gya. Ham dono ne waapas sath rehne ka faisla liya or hum ne bad eddat ke halala kia. Halala meri biwi ki sagi bahan ke sohar ke sath hua or halala ki saari sharte puri hui. Bad halala ke wapas talak ho gayi or bad iddat ke hum dono ne wapas nikah kar liya. Lekin ab kisi molana se pucha to bataya ke ap ka halala hua hi nahi. To ye halala hua ya nahi? Please sari details saaf saaf bataye.

Q: Mujy jana he ke aagr husband message par teen baar talaaq likh kar bheje tu kia talaaq hojaey gi ke nahi?

Q: Ma kisi tara bi in waswason sa nahi nikal pa raha hun. Actually muje jo cheez tang ker ri ha wo ye ha k ap na dakha ho ga k jab manay second time apnay words repeat kia k agar tum na baji ko call ki to mari taraf sa talaq ho gi ( please refer to my previous question), is jumlay ma main 'kal' ka word use kerna galti sa or ger iradi tor per bhul gya tha. muje boltay huay ni pata tha k manay kal ka word miss kia ha. ye sirf aik insani galti thi. mara maqsad qat,ai ye ni tha k ma zindagi bhar k liay apni wife ko mari baji sa bat kernay sa rok raha hun or asa kasay ho sakta ha. aik husband ko to proud hota ha agar us ki biwi husband k gar walo sa achay terms rakhti ha. manay ye words generally ni use kiay thay sirf us aik call k liay kahay thay. infact pehli bar to clear kal ka word bhi use kia tha. ma scenario bhi bata chuka hun ap ko k hamaray bich usi aik call pa argument ho raha tha or manay usi k lia shart lagai thi. Allah dilon k hal khub janta ha or amal ka daromidar niyyat pa ha. mari niyat sirf us call ki thi hamesha ki ni. ma ye bat Allah ko hazir nazir jan ker or oath la ker kehta hun. is surat ma maray case ki kia ruling ho gi? kia ma apnay biwi bachon k sath zindagi guzar sakta hun? mari wife na us din (19 august ko) call ni ki thi. lakin us k bad bat bhi hoti ha or ana jana b hota ha. mari biwi muje boht tasalli or dilasa dati ha k kuch ni hua parishan na hon lakin ma dar chuka hun. muje divorce phobia ho chuka ha. kia koi asi surat ha k ma apnay is haq sa dastbardar ho jaun q k muje hamesha ye dar lagta ha her waqt sochta hun k future ma mari zuban sa ye word khud ba khud nikal jaen gay. Me apna ghar kharab ni kerna chahta. Me apni biwi or betion sa be panah pyar kerta hun ma mar jaun ga mufti sahab plz muje is aziyat sa nikalen. Aap k jaldi reply ka intezar rahay ga. Jazaak Allah.

Q: Talaaq-e-salaasa kiya hey? Ayk aadmi ne apni biwi ko post ke zariye teen dafa stamp paper pe talaq likh kur biwi ke ma baap ke ghar pakistan bhej di. Biwi UK me rehti hey. Kiya talaaq ho gai?

Q: My question is my husband and I have no issues on anything. He just had his dinner and I was taking mine after a long vacation. He went to work so I asked him did you read namaaz today at work then he replied to me (tum azad ho or ma bi azad hon, mujy nahi pasand ya kyn ma ghar per tumhein di khanay ka liya namaz perta hon. He said ma na palay b kaha tha k muj sa mat poucha karo ma nahi chahta k kisi ko pata cha lay meri namaz ka he said na tum maray mamolat mein Bolo na ma tumhary tu I think life achi guzar jaiya gi. I asked ab ya kaya baat thi he said ma na just general bat ki ha phir ma chup ho gayi after few mins he said tumhein kaya howa ha tumhary dimagh mein sirf wohi bat hoti ha. Me baat kaya ker raha hon tumhary mind mein ha hi fat ur he said Aik tu mind ki baat hoti ha na k maray mind mein koi aisi bat ho Mary tu mind mein dur dur tk aisi koi baat nahi so I told u all situation mufti sahib actually I stand myself very toughly boz last few years back my life had different kind of things so am very much sensitive. If I heard this kind of word I thought straight away about other things as my husband explained everything, so the purpose of email is kaya iss sa koi faraq para ha relation per jab I told you about my husband's intention.

Q: Agar husbnd apni wife ko likh karke "as a husband I quit from any kind of relationship with you" jab k zuban se ne kaha ho aur us ki niyyat talaq ki na ho tou kia talaq ho jaey gi?

Q: My daughter was playing us ky fingers per mud lag Gaya wo apnay father Yani mery husband ky pass gayi uss ko kuch thora sa ghussa karo wo Ronay lagti ha Rotay Rotay Maray pass ayi ma uss ka hands wash kar wany kitchen mein ly gayi Mary husband uss ka Ronay per khanay lagay k (sab ko azad ker churay ju merzi karein jawab nerzi phirein sari hi nazak ban gayi hain muhkum bana ha tu kam karein) that's my ques sari detail iss liya likhi ha k pori bat samaj jaiya ab pouchna ya ha k iss sa meaty relation ko tu kuch nahi howa ya mujy akaili ko nahi kaha Bachun ko b sath mein mila ker kaha tu iss sa mery relation per koi faraq tu nahi ha jab k normal hi baat ho rahi thi jazakAllah.

Q: Mufti sahab hua ye tha k 19 august ko mari sister or behnoi na hajj per jana tha. 18 august ko maray parents unhen alwidah kernay un k gar gay lakin kisi waja sa meri wife ko sath ni la ker ja sakay. Ma UAE ma job kerta hun or mari wife gar walo k sath pakistan ma rehti han. 18 aug ki rat ko ma fone per apni biwi sa bat ker raha tha jab mari biwi na ye bat muj sa discuss ki k gar walay muje apnay sath ni la ker gay halan k manay unhen bataya bhi hua tha k muje sath la k jana jab jana ho to ma bhi baji sa mil lu gi. manay apni biwi sa kaha k han tumen sath la k jana chahye tha lakin chalo koi bat ni tum baji k janay sa pehlay fon per bat ker lana. wo narazgi ma bol ri thi k ma fon ni karun gi. muje bura lag raha tha k wo mari bat q ni man rahi is lia ab ma tang a ker us ko keh raha tha k acha thik ha tum cal mat kerna. ab wo kehnay lagi k ma karun gi. manay ego ma a ker us sa keh dia k agar tum na kal baji ko call ki to mari taraf sa tumen talaq ho gi. Us na kaha ke ap jo marzi kahen ma kal fon karun gi or ap ko saza dun gi ap na talaq ka q bola ha. manay dobara kaha k agar tum na call ki to mari taraf sa talaq ho gi, talaq ho gi, talaq ho gi. (Main Allah ko hazir o nazir jan ker or us ko gawah bana ker halfia ye kehta hun k manay ye pabandi sirf usi aik call k lia lagai jo 19 aug ko mari sister ko ki jani thi). Mari biwi na mujhe kafi daraya tha k ma call ker du gi ta k ap ko saza milay lakin us na us din call ni ki. Manay aik din ki pabandi lagai thi is lia ab un dono ki fon per bhi bat hoti ha ana jana bhi hota ha. Kia ma normal life guzar sakta hun kisi dar khauf k bager? Meri do choti batian han ma tara tara ke waswason dar or khauf me hun.

Q: Mai hospital mai tha or mari biwi ke ghar waly chahty hain hamari divorce hojaay. Phir mai or mari biwi saath rehna chahty hain. Friday say Wednesdy tak mai hospitl mai tha or bed rest per tha. Isi baat ka faaida utha kar mari biwi ko qaid kra gya or mry pas ni any dia or zabardasti us say divorce paper per sign krwa liye or usny khd ni chodna tha per father na pressurise kar k sign liye or phr 6 din bd jb mai ldki k ghr gya toh mjhy us say milny ni dia or mjhy ldki k father na kaha usny tmhy chod dia or usny dsri jagah shadi ki haan krdi phr mjhy yeh sb bta kr sign ly liye gay q k milny tk ki pabandi thi or mjhy jhoot bola gya or phr mari biwi na ksi trhan mjh say contact kra or btaya k sb jhoot hai or zabardasti ki gae mjh say? Toh mujhy jaanna hai ke hamari divorce aisay hogae hai ya ab bhi hum husband wife hain. Please sir jaldi bata dain.

Q: Muje ye pochna tha ke agar shohar apni biwi ku kahey ke tum ne falan shaks ss or us ki beton betion sy bat ki to tum mujh pe talaq ho. Us k bad biwi ye sawal karti hai ke ap un man sy 1 ka k us ka ap ku keh rahey ho husband kehta hai k us ki bat nai ki ku k us sy tum bat kar he nai sakti agar ma na b kaho to es k chand din bad usi shakhs ko kisi doosrey shakhs k mobile sy message bhjti hai. Mera sawal ye hai ke ab es k bad hamen kia karna chaye. Us k bad ham abi tak qareeb nai gye. Mehbani farma kar rahnumai.