Talaaq

Q: Mera sawal ye he ke ek larki larka jo ek doosre ko pasand karte the gunah k dar se larki ne larke se k mujhse nikah karlo. Larka larki ko bike pe bitha kar le gaya apne doston k paas. Wo dono dost road pe khare the or larka larki bike pe the or isi tarha in logo ne ijaab o qubool kiya. Is beech dono me bohat laraiyan hui karki ne bohat dafa larke se talaq bhi maangi jo larke ne di ya nahi larki ko yaad nahi he. Phir larki ki maa ne uski shaadi karni chahi. Larki ne larke se poocha ke ab kya karen larke ne kaha ke me to kuch kamata nahi hu kese khilaaunga tumhe to tum shadi karlo apni maa ki marzi se. Larki ne maa ki marzi se shadi karli ab uske do bache hen. Ab ye bataen ke kya un dono larki larka ka nikah hua tha? Or agr nikah hua tha to kya unki talaq hogai thi jab larke ne larki ko azad kiya? Ab jis se us larki ki shadi hui he kya wo usi ki bivi he ya Nahi? Larki ne isko gunah samjh kar allah se bohat maafi maangi he or wo apne shohar ke saath Hajj bhi karchuki he to kya ab uspe koi gunah hoga agr usne koi galti ki he to?

Q: Mere husband hamesha mujhe baat baat par kehte rehte hai ke tum meri taraf se farigh ho yaha se chali jo abhi to hafte pehle ki baat hai mere husband ne kaha meri taraf se tum farigh ho mai tumhe talaaq deta hoo, do din baad maine poocha ke ap ne aisa kyu kah mai yahi soch rahi ti ke unhe is baat par pashtava hoga par mere husband ne kaha us ne jo kaha teek kaha or wo likh kar bi de dega aur phir kaha meri taraf se tum farigh ho alag kamre mai soya karo, us din se hamari koi baat cheet nahi hu mujhe kuch samaj mai nahi araha. Please muje bataye kya mera nikaah toot chuka hai.

Q: Ek raat me kafi der kat Talaaq ke bare men Fatwe pad raha tha Aur Audio bhi suna tha internet pe. Aur jab soya to woh word talaq word zuban pe tha yani suna hua repeat kar raha tha aur karwat liya samne biwi leti the dhiyan uspe chala gaya jab ke me ye word biwi ko nahi keh raha tha nahi usse mukhtib hokar kaha tha aur nahi use talaq de rhaha tha bas talaq word istemal karte hue dhiyan bivi pe chala gaya. (Aur ye words man hi man men bol raha tha mere honth hil rahe the lekin awaaj nahi nikal rahi thia aur agar kuchh bhunbhunahat nikal bhi rahi ho me yaqin se kehta hun ke karib betha hua shakhs nahi sun sakta) aise me mere nikah pe to kuchh ashar nahi hua na sir.

Q: Meri shaadi june 2013 me huyi thi. Shaadi ke baad mai apni biwi ke saath bhot khush tha. Mai ne uspe kabhi shak nahi kiya kyun ki mai uspe bhot bharosa karta tha. Lekin shaadi ke chaar mahine baad usne mera bharosa toda. Aur meri nigaah se gir gayi. Phir bhi mai uske saath kisi surat se guzar kar rha tha kyun ki mai usse bhot pyar kr ta tha. Kuch din baad mera usse jhagra hua aur maine use ghusse me aakar 2 talaaq di thi. Talaaq de kar mai bhot pachtaya. Phir mai kamre bahar nikal gya. Talaaq dene ke kuch din baad mujhe pata chala ki meri biwi hamal se hai. Ye baat sun ke mai bhot khush hua aur fir miya biwi ki tarah rehne lage. Aur phir kuch mahine baad mai apne parivar ko mumbai le ke aagya aur apni biwi ko us ke ghar chod diya. Phir kuch mahine baad mujhe ladka hua aur ladke ki faut ho gayi larke ki faut hone ke baad mai bhot parishan ho gya aur dar gya. Tab se mai mashallah 5 waqt ki namaz pabandi se pad rha hu. Ek din mai jumme ki namaz padhne gya to maulana talaq ke baare me bayaan kar rhey they. Jab maine un ka byaan suna to mere rowen rowen khade ho gaye. Mai bhot parishan ho gya ki ye maine kya kia. Mai aaj tak ye samajh raha tha ki ek baitahk me agar 3 baar talaq kho ge to 3 pade gi mujhe yeh nhi pata tha ki chahe ek baar me 3 baar kho ya alag alag dafa kahi sab ka ek hi hukm ha. Mai ghalti kar chuka hun isliye parishan hun maine apni biwi ko pahle 2 baar talaaq diya tha aur uske baad ek aur diye hai.tisra talaaq mujhe yaad nhi tha lekin jab bete ki faut ke baad parishan ho kar namaz ki pabandi ki tab ye khayal aaya. Ab sawal ye hai kia mera talaaq ho gya maine ye saari baat apne waaldain ko biwi aur rishtedaaron ko bata di hai kya maine sahi kiya ab sab log yahi samajhte hai ki mera talaaq ho gya. Meherbani karke aap Quran owr hadees ki roshni mera faisla sunaaye 20. Kya zehen pe dabaao daalne se agar di hui talaaq yaad aajaye to kya talaaq waaqiye ho jaa hai.

Q: Mera sawal yeh hai ke meri shaadi huye 1 saal ho gaye they aur in guzre huye saalon me maine alni biwi ko kisi wajah se 2 talaaq di thi. Aur mere zehen me baar baar 1 talaaq dene ki baat aurr aarahi hai ke maine ek aur talaaq di hai. Please mujhe bataayen mai kya karoo. Ab maine apni alahidgi ikhtayaar kar li hai. Aur sab ko pata bhi chal gaya hai ki maine apni biwi ko talaaq di hai. Please meherbani karke jald jawaab de ki kya meri talaaq waqiye ho gai hai ya nhi huyi?

Q: Talaaq ke sareeh or kanaya alfaz kon kon say hen? Kya ek lafz jo 3, 4 alag mane ke liye istamal ho woh talaq ka sareeh lafz ho sakta hai?

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1) Kiya ek aurat apne talaq shuda soher ke saat dosti rakh sakthi hai ya baat chit kar sakthey hai.

2) Kiya talaq k baat dono ek dusrey k liye mehram hai ya na mehram.

3) Ek aurat apne soher k bagair ijazat koi gair mehram se baat kar sakthi hai.

4) Ek talaq shuda aurat apne talaq shuda soher sey akela me mulaquat kar sakthi hai. Ya akelay ya apni behan k sath ja kar mulaqat kar sakthi hai. Yeh jayez hai ya haram hai.

5) Ager vo admi se koi aulad hai or vo apni aulad ko kuch madad karna chaheta hai to kiya aurat jab k vo kisi or k nikah mai hai apne pehlay marad se akelay mai mulaqat kar sakthi hai. Yah aurat ka farz hai ki vo apne mojuda sohar ko or uske bhai ya baap ko vakil bana ke beach mey rakh kar maumla kare.

6) Kiya yeh koi mard ko gawara ho ga ke uski biwi apne pehlay mard ko apney ghar ya apni behan k ghar bula kar sirf aurtey baat kare.

7) Jab ke talaq k baad vo aap ka mehram nahi hai kiya vo aurat uske saath mauj masti ya sair sapate k liye ja sakthi hai. Is rishte ko islam mey kiya halal keha gaiya ya haram.

8) Ek aurat jo k apney teesri husband ke saat zindagi guzar rahi hai. Kiya vo apney pehlay sohar se financial madad talab kar sakthi hai ya pehla sohar usko dena chaiye to kiya yeh aurat ley sakthi hai jub k uske mujada sohar ko ateraz hai. Or pehlay sohar se ko Aulad nahi hai.

9) Kiya aurat apney teesri husband k hote hue apney passport par pehlay sohar k naam se renewal kar sakthi ya nahi. Renewal ke form par signature karna padta hai accept karna pada hai ke aap is admi ki biwi hai. Yeh karne se mojada sohar par kiya asar padega. Is ki sharai hasiyat bataiye. Banda aap ke jawab ka muntazir hai.

Q: Me ne apni wife ko is trah se kaha tha ke, me tumhen talaq de donga. Kya is trah taalaq ho gai?

Q: Ayk aadmi guse me biwi ko bolta he me ne tum ko faregh kiya aur bad me bolta he me ne talaaq dia. Kya is se talaaq ho gye gi? Please help me.

Q: Mera sawal yeh hay ke agar shohar gussay ma aka apnay kissi aziz ko yeh kahta hay kah mare bivi ko keh do kah mainay usay takal de (yeh lafz sirf aik bar kehta hay) na kah direct apni bivi ko or phir do mah kah bad woh apni bivi say rojoo bhe karta hay to is ka baray ma Islam kia kahta hay?. Please tafseel say jwab degiay ga.