Advice on controlling one's anger

Q: I have anger issues and although I'm not a talkative person, I end up saying statements that really hurt others. What's Mufti saheb's advice on controlling the tongue and anger?

A: Don't do or say anything without thinking and reflecting over the short term consequences and long term consequences. If you do this correctly, insha Allah you will be able to manage your anger problems. 

Secondly, if you do say something inappropriate then straight away ask the person for forgiveness with all humility and remorse.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)