Good Character

Husband asking his wife to reveal her past

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2022-05-14 08:00

Q: Is it permissible for a husband to ask his wife about her past. He even has her facebook account and contacts. He demands answers and becomes very angry. He sais he has to know and there should not be any secrets between a married couple. Is this right?

Difference between venting to someone and making gheebah

Submitted by user5 on Thu, 2022-02-03 17:38

Q: Is there a difference between venting to someone and making gheebah?

Being pleased with the decision of Allah Ta'ala

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2022-01-04 06:53

Q: How can a person achieve radha bil qadha (being pleased with the decree of Allah Ta'ala) for situations which he dislikes?

Overcoming depression

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2022-01-04 06:51

Q: How can I overcome depression?

Jealousy over the good of someone

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2021-12-25 06:44

Q: Is it a sin to give someone the evil eye unintentionally? Is it a sin to be jealous of someone’s rahmat?

Spreading bad news

Submitted by user2 on Fri, 2021-12-10 07:22

Q: Is it true to say that one should not spread bad news even it is in the public domain and true?

Feeling jealous when seeing someone else do good deeds

Submitted by user2 on Tue, 2021-07-27 07:22

Q: Someone has jealousy issues. She gets jealous to see someone get closer to Allah. She was not doing any good like before, but after seeing that person, she started again. She thinks that she started doing good again because of jealousy. She's envious of other things too. Does it eat up the good works and can it lead to jahannam?

Controlling one's anger

Submitted by user2 on Sat, 2021-07-03 08:38

Q: My 18 year old son at times drives me crazy. He always argues and debates. I would like to do my islaah as far as anger is concerned. I have listened and read all the advises and bayaans of the Ulama as far as anger is concerned. But when I am in the situation I forget everything because I am too busy fighting and arguing with him to remember anything. After I have said alot of bad things to him, I regret and feel bad as to how badly I have behaved towards him. How can I reform myself. 

Controlling one's anger

Submitted by user5 on Wed, 2021-05-26 08:48

Q: I really need to finish my anger issue. I get angry really easily and I'm always physical when angry (meaning I slap or shout at the person Im angry at). I have tried drinking water, doing ablution saying Aauthubillah mina shaitaan irrajeem but nothing really helped. Please help me how can I deal with this anger. Is there any dua or something?

مسألة امكان الكذب

Submitted by user2 on Mon, 2021-02-01 06:56

س:  أود أن تشرح لي بالتفصيل مسألة "امكان الكذب". قرأت الكتاب "المهند"، لكن الناس لديهم هذا الاعتراض ، أن رأي المؤلف هو خلاف الجمهور. يزعمون أن إمكان الكذب بالإجماع غير جائز عقلا. هل يمكنك تقديم بعض النصوص من السلف من الكتب المعتبرة؟ و هل فيه خلاف بين الاشاعرة و الماتريدية؟ و هل يجوز الخلاف في هذه المسألة؟ ولماذا يفرق بعض الناس بين "امكان الكذب" و "إثابة العاصي وتعذيب المطيع"؟ وإذا قلت أن إمكان الكذب جائز في الكلام اللفظي، هل يكون امكان الكذب في القرآن الكريم ايضا؟ هل في معنى الكلام اللفظي والكلام النفسي خلاف بين الاشاعرة و الماتريدية؟ بينوا بالتفصيل و الدلائل. جزاکم الله خيرا

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