Doubts on how many talaaqs were issued

Q: I married a hindu who became muslim in England because she was in love with me. As soon as she became Muslim she started having many arguments with me, and was angry with anything I did with my first wife and she even tried overdosing. After I did not agree with her behaviour, which included terrible sexual insults. It has been 1 month since my first wife went back to her family in India and is keen for me to take her back, which I would be prepared to. I did warn her that that we divorced - I want to know whether we are. If I was to meet her and we made love would that be permissible as there is uncertainty whether it is three divorces or two, whilst the other comments reiterated previous warnings.

Keeping the Qur'an in the bedroom

Q: We have a baby on the way. And we're arranging a room where we have our Mushaf and Islamic books at the moment. I am looking for a place for these now, but it's difficult because other people in the house watch loud TV and I wouldn't want to place the books where music can be heard. Could we keep them in our bedroom even though we'd have intercourse there and have our soiled clothes and bedsheets in the same room as well? What about keeping them in the baby's room even though the baby would wet and soil it's nappies in there?