Various masaail of Nikaah

Q: I am officially going to get engaged with a guy on april 9. I am not happy with this engagement and don't dare to speak about it with my parents. Please advice me.

Q: Is getting married the sole way of being an ummati of Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam)?

Q: Is it haraam for a couple to sleep in a separate room?

Q: I am a 19 year old female and would like to know

1. What is the right age for a Muslim women to make nikah?

2. According to the sunnah how should a woman find a spouse?

3. Why do the Ulamaa say its best for a pregnant woman to read Surah Maryam and Surah Yusuf during her pregnancy?

4. What are the benefit of reading those surahs?

5. Are there any ahadith saying that married women should live/stay with their in laws?

Q: What is the duration for a husband and wife to be separated from each other? What if that limit is exceeded?

Q: Why doesn't Islam forbid marriage during early teens after puberty (like 14,15) as it increases various risks (like death of mother)?

Q: What will be the effect on the Nikah if a man has a relationships whith his brother's wife in his brothers absence and what should they do to be forgiven by Almighty Allah.

Q: I have a question that confuses me often. I have read in the Islamic books that women is created from the left rib of the men and therefore matches are made before a person comes to this world. This means that each man and woman on earth has a match. Then what about the man who never gets married or women who never gets married when they have their match in the world. And if a person does not get married, what about his/her destined match? Does his match also does not get married? And those who pass away as a bachelor, does his women never gets married, as a person only gets married to those with whom they are destined to be with.

Q: I'm proposed and the date that has been set for the nikah has a high possibility of coinciding with my menses. What should I do? I'm so confused. Please advise me.

Q: I want to understand the shariah way of performing nikaah of a girl and a boy. There are too many customs prevailing among Muslims of different region and everyone claims that theirs is the correct way. Please guide.