Having intimate relations on the first night of nikaah
Q: Is it compulsory or necessary for a couple to have intimate relations on the first night of nikaah?
Masaail relating to intimacy
Questions related to intimacy
Q: I have a few personal questions regarding a halaal husband and wife that are in Nikaah.
1. When does ghusal actually become fardh, when the male private part touches - like rubs against the female private part between her legs WITHOUT going into the female private part, or when the male private actually enters the female private part?
2. How does one remove semen from a bed sheet or duvet cover?
3. How does one remove madhi (before semen) from a bed sheet or duvet cover?
4. Is kissing one's wife or husband's private parts haraam?
5. What age should a wife and husband stop allowing their child to see them without clothes, example baby is in the bath and one parent is in the shower?
6. Does a woman need a fardh ghusal if she has a wet dream?
7. If the husband puts his finger inside the wife's private part, does the woman need a ghusal if she does not orgasm?
8. If one touches his wifes private part and his hand becomes slightly moist and he touches the blanket, is the blanket napaak?
9. If madhi (before semen) touches a blanket does it become napaak?
10. If one does not realize that semen or madhi touched something like the bedsheet then after a few hours or even a day sees a dried stain what should he do?
Spouses getting intimate after nikaah before rukhsati
Q: Is it permissible to get physical after nikaah without ruksati?
Having relations with one's wife during her menses (haidh)
Q:
1. Is intercourse during periods haraam?
2. Can it be done using condoms?
Spouses having relations after haidh ends
Q: If the wife was ending her haidh and stopped bleeding for a whole day and made ghusl and afterwards had relations with her husband and after having relations, she started bleeding again… Will this be a sin upon the spouses?
Wife refusing husband from having relations with her due to being tired
Q: Can a wife refuse her husband from having relations with her due to being very tired and in need of sleep?
Engaging in intimacy with one's wife when she is spotting
Q: When a woman is starting her period, but before the blood could flow there was spotting and few drops of blood. Can her husband engage in intimacy with her at that period before the flowing of blood?
Condition for a marriage to be consummated
Q: For consummation of marriage, is it mandatory for husband to ejaculate in vagina or penetration is sufficient without ejaculation on wedding night?
Relations with one's wife during haidh
Q: Is it haraam in Islam to do any kind of sexual behaviour with one's wife in her periods?
Husband not fulfilling his wife's marital needs
Q: If a wife lives with her husband and takes care of her, but doees not fulfil her marital needs. What should she do? How long should she bear this attitude? What is the solution from an Islamic point of view?