Relations with one's wife during haidh
Q: Is it haraam in Islam to do any kind of sexual behaviour with one's wife in her periods?
Masaail relating to intimacy
Husband not fulfilling his wife's marital needs
Q: If a wife lives with her husband and takes care of her, but doees not fulfil her marital needs. What should she do? How long should she bear this attitude? What is the solution from an Islamic point of view?
Husband not fulfilling wife's conjugal rights
Q: It's been 4 months since my husband had sex with me, is it okay in Islam?
Facing the qiblah while being intimate with one's wife
Q:
1. When I am intimate with my wife, we sometimes face the qiblah while kissing, hugging, rolling on bed, etc. But we are nude and we face the qiblah. Though we try to avoid it sometimes. Is is a sin to face the qiblah when nude, whether from the front side or back.
2. Although we know that we should put a sheet over ourselves while being intimate but sometimes knowingly we do it without a sheet and towards the qiblah. Are we sinning? We know that while relieving oneself one should not face the qiblah and we don’t do it while relieving.
Swallowing sperm
Q: Can you swallow sperm in Islam?
Making wudhu after having relations with one's wife
Q: After relations with ones wife, if one intends to sleep without ghusl, the hadith mentions making wudhu. Is this classified as a sunnat?
Having relations with one's wife before rukhsati
Q: Can we have sex after nikaah but before rukhsati?
Husband stimulating wife
Q: If my husband stimulates my breast while I keep my legs closed and due to the added pressure of my legs being closed I reach climax, is this allowed? Because it’s very difficult for me to finish with my legs opened, so even though I ensure he finishes with normal vaginal penetration, I need him to stimulate me some other way in order for me to finish and this requires my legs to exert pressure on my private while he massages my breast or something of that sort. I’m not sure if the fact that he is stimulating me makes it okay or whether the fact that I am exerting pressure with my legs at the same time turns it into masturbation. Please advise.
Satisfying one's wife during intimacy
Q:
1. Is it recommended or even mandatory that the woman orgasms during a sexual relationship with her husband.
2. If the husband has reached orgasm, is it mandatory or recommended to wait until the woman has her orgasm and then stop the sexual relationship.
3. For me, once I reach my orgasm (the sperm is out) I cannot continue the sexual activity, but my wife tells me that it is her right to have an orgasm also. The result is that all these words and attitudes have broken the desire for my wife. I do not want to touch my wife because I have a disgust in me. I have the impression that the roles are reversed, although I have always been indulgent in sex with my wife.
All the more her sexual appetite is much greater than mine, please advise us.
Doubting whether one had intercourse during haidh
Q: I'm really worried if I committed a sin. Yesterday when I was doing foreplay with my wife, I tried fingering and I saw a little pinkish color on my finger. My wife immediately went to the washroom and checked whether her periods started or not. She confirmed that her periods haven't started so I had sex with her the same night. But today her periods started. I'm worried whether that pinkish color was period blood. Had I committed a sin. Please tell me what I have to do.