Q: If a wife lives with her husband and takes care of her, but doees not fulfil her marital needs. What should she do? How long should she bear this attitude? What is the solution from an Islamic point of view?
Q: It's been 4 months since my husband had sex with me, is it okay in Islam?
Q:
1. When I am intimate with my wife, we sometimes face the qiblah while kissing, hugging, rolling on bed, etc. But we are nude and we face the qiblah. Though we try to avoid it sometimes. Is is a sin to face the qiblah when nude, whether from the front side or back.
2. Although we know that we should put a sheet over ourselves while being intimate but sometimes knowingly we do it without a sheet and towards the qiblah. Are we sinning? We know that while relieving oneself one should not face the qiblah and we don’t do it while relieving.
Q: Can you swallow sperm in Islam?
Q: After relations with ones wife, if one intends to sleep without ghusl, the hadith mentions making wudhu. Is this classified as a sunnat?
Q: Can we have sex after nikaah but before rukhsati?
Q: If my husband stimulates my breast while I keep my legs closed and due to the added pressure of my legs being closed I reach climax, is this allowed? Because it’s very difficult for me to finish with my legs opened, so even though I ensure he finishes with normal vaginal penetration, I need him to stimulate me some other way in order for me to finish and this requires my legs to exert pressure on my private while he massages my breast or something of that sort. I’m not sure if the fact that he is stimulating me makes it okay or whether the fact that I am exerting pressure with my legs at the same time turns it into masturbation. Please advise.
Q:
1. Is it recommended or even mandatory that the woman orgasms during a sexual relationship with her husband.
2. If the husband has reached orgasm, is it mandatory or recommended to wait until the woman has her orgasm and then stop the sexual relationship.
3. For me, once I reach my orgasm (the sperm is out) I cannot continue the sexual activity, but my wife tells me that it is her right to have an orgasm also. The result is that all these words and attitudes have broken the desire for my wife. I do not want to touch my wife because I have a disgust in me. I have the impression that the roles are reversed, although I have always been indulgent in sex with my wife.
All the more her sexual appetite is much greater than mine, please advise us.
Q: I'm really worried if I committed a sin. Yesterday when I was doing foreplay with my wife, I tried fingering and I saw a little pinkish color on my finger. My wife immediately went to the washroom and checked whether her periods started or not. She confirmed that her periods haven't started so I had sex with her the same night. But today her periods started. I'm worried whether that pinkish color was period blood. Had I committed a sin. Please tell me what I have to do.
Q: From the start of my early life I had never been focused on any aim and still now I am regretting it why I am not clear about my aim. I am feeling like a burden on this earth. I never wanted to be engaged before marriage. After my BS honors I got engaged, to whom I got engaged he is totally of a different chemistry life style. He always wanted to be bold in our relationship whereas I believed in intimacy after marriage.
A lot of misunderstandings and quarrels occurred between us. Just before nikah, I was totally blamed for not being expressive in showing my feelings or whatever. He always wanted a bold relationship, bold talks whereas I denied it just because I knew its not allowed in Islam. To save this relationship and respect of my parents I totally vanished my personality, my own resemblance. I have done my mphill but still I feel nothing to myself.
Why every time girls have to shut their mind soul and feelings even after nikah (rukhsti is in coming Nov) he wants to have full intimacy. I know it is allowed after nikah when he come to visit me but I want to have all this after rukhsati.