Q: I am married and have children. Throughout my marriage, I had a lot of problems, but I stayed in the marriage because of my children. The problems were mainly related to my husband going out with friends and returning home late at night and not showing us any attention. Also, he spends a lot of his time watching porn and speaks freely to women. What should I do? I only cry and feel helpless. I want to leave. What does Mufti Saheb advise me to do?
Q: If someone does not want photos to be taken of their baby and they know their grandparents are taking in the quiet, must they tell them not to?
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Q: I am a 22 years old girl. Nowadays I don't know why I am so distracted. I have bad intentions which I don't want myself to indulge in. I have fear of Allah. I don't want to commit any sin. I really need a husband because shaitaan is continuously distracting me. I have many facilities to distract me but I don't want to get involved in gunnah. I don't want to have a boyfriend and fulfill my desires. I pray to get married 5 times after each namaz every single day. Please give me some wazifa to get married soon as the environment and the present days are spoiling every girl and boy.
Q: I am a concerned parents whose twin boys are doing hifz. The moulana is quite strict on them and thats not a problem for me but both of them are so scared if he has to ask them anything they both just stare at him and keep quiet. The Moulana is particular about tajweed and their grounding for tajweed is not good. So for that we are also at fault. They had been going to another ustaad for 3 years and had not done their hifz well. They were playing. So we decided to take them out and this year march they started by a new Moulana. My main concern is that the Moulana sent me a message saying that my boys have been with him for three months and they have shown very little progress. They are quite dedicated because they are up from 4.30 and go to Madressa at 6 and return home at 5.30. They have a break and they are back learning at 7. Please help me to overcome this fear.
Q: I wanted to know if there's anyway to keeping a relationship halaal. I know that seeing a girl is haraam, touching is haraam. But, what if I talk to a girl on Facebook? Just a simple chat to know her very well! I will not see her, no phone contact too. I'm a student and until I get settled and get married with her, I would like to talk to her on Facebook just for a few minutes. I ain't making any zina, right? When I start earning, I will talk to her parents. My parents do allow for love marriage but in a halaal way. I don't believe in arranged marriages. I don't trust girls of today's generation! I want to go with the halaal way. Please guide me with correct answers.
Q: I need help urgently. I have been married for more than four months. We have had problems with the husband's family and them not likening me and I also have been taking my anger out on my husband but now he has left me at his mothers house and not speaking with me or letting me know where he is! I am really scared and I want him back. Please help me. I want my husband to understand me and come back to me and his family to stop causing trouble for us and he is being controlled by his mum, sister and his family.
Q: My question is that, I loved and liked one Thai girl. She also loved and liked me and she agreed to become a Muslim and marry me but she suddenly changed her mine maybe because of her sister. She confirmed with promises and she was ready to become a Muslim and marry me after her graduation next year. But now what happened to her. I love and liked her too much and I am very upset and sad and now I can not sleep and can not eat. My condition is not good. I would like to ask you that, I have true and real love for her and I want that she becomes a Muslim and marries me. If my heart and mind and love is 100% true for her from my deep heart, will I really get back to her and will she contact me again? Kindly tell me any wazeefa for that.
Q: My nani (my mothers mothers) coughs all the time. She has been doing that for a long time now, and nothing helps. What should I do?
Q: I was harassed sexually by force by some people. Is it my mistake and will my prayers be accepted by Allah Ta'ala. I am a male.