Advice

Q: I have met this guy on facebook. At first we use to chat and just be friends and then one day my parents found out and I stopped talking to  him. After a while I got in contact with him again. I really missed him and realised I was in love with him. Now that I speak to him, he knows I love him and he has asked me to marry him and would I talk to my parents? I don't want to do anything haraam. I have tried to forget him and I couldn't. Is there anyway, advice or duas that I could pray to help me with this. I rally want to marry him and have a halaal relationship.

Q: How does one love others (e.g. parents, siblings, friends etc) only for Allah Ta'ala?

Q: I am currently living with my parents and I have endured many difficulties during the past nineteen years of my life. My father is extremely verbally abusive to us I.e my mother and siblings and dawns all his anger on me. I try my best to be obedient to him and I can't recall when last I haven't obeyed his commands but he persists in lashing out on me and forcing me to do that which is haraam, he also never spends on us and we are often left  stranded and miserable. Can you please give me a method in which I may quell his anger or make him realise his actions unto us are wrong?

Q: How should one deal with the toll plazas where most of the time there are ladies working. One has to pay the money, sometimes receive change, and most of the time there would be contact between ones hands and the lady working there?

Q: If a person acquired his original income from running a betting agency but has left that business for many years and now has established many
other halaal businesses is his current income halaal? Can we eat by his house?

Q: I asked one Imaam saheb to start the quran e paak for my 5 year old daughter and he was ready to do it at his residence, but when I told my wife
she said that let her continue at our neighbour's because she is already reading it there. I am very much embarrassed because I already promised molvi saheb that I will send her. I am feeling regret and sinful if I don't send her. Should I explain to hafiz sahab about this or I have to fulfil my promise and send her  any way? Is this a sinful Act. Because a Muslim has to fulfil his Promise in any circumstances. Please advice me on this.

Q: I am married for the last 9 years. My mother died when I was 16. We are only two sisters and my father is all alone as I don't have any brother. My question is that what responsibilities do I have toward my father? My husband doesn't like me to visit my family. My father is even deprived of his grandchildren. As a daughter I really feel very pity for my father and as a wife I can't disobey my husband. Few months back I tried to convince my husband that he is wrong on his part and is doing injustice with me and my father. He got angry and has not talked to me since last three months. He is working abroad and few days back has come to India. He still ignores me as if I don't exist neither does he sleep with me. It hurts me a lot as I love him very much. But now it seems he has started hating me. He is also very short tempered and gets fits of anger. I told him sorry but he told me to go away. I am very disturbed and I don't know what to do. His parents are of no help and often blame me for everything. Can you please suggest me some wazifa to melt his heart so that he starts loving me again. I need some very powerful wazifa which will work very fast because he will be in India only for a week. Please save my marriage.

Q: I went with a guy to his house three times when his family was away and without the knowledge of my own family. We kissed and I removed my shirt for him and he sucked and licked my breasts, but I kept my pants on and we did not have any sexual intercourse. We just got intimate to this extent and nothing more. I am now regretful of all of this and want to repent sincerely to Allah. Will this be considered as committing adultery? How do I ask for Allah's forgiveness?

Q: A person in the past felt happiness over the spiritual and worldly loss of certain other people. He now feels remorse and is aware of the warning
mentioned in the ahadith. What do you recommend he should do apart from repent?

Q: My friend has a question about tawbah. Once he was very angry and threw his Imamah on the ground. He now keeps thinking it will be a means for
his loss in knowledge. Right away he regretted his actions. He wants to know, does proper sincere taubah for all such actions related to Azmat of things such as the Imamah reverse any ill effects? ( he says he will never do such disrespect to anything).