Advice

Sending one's daughter for Qur'an lessons

Q: I asked one Imaam saheb to start the quran e paak for my 5 year old daughter and he was ready to do it at his residence, but when I told my wife
she said that let her continue at our neighbour's because she is already reading it there. I am very much embarrassed because I already promised molvi saheb that I will send her. I am feeling regret and sinful if I don't send her. Should I explain to hafiz sahab about this or I have to fulfil my promise and send her  any way? Is this a sinful Act. Because a Muslim has to fulfil his Promise in any circumstances. Please advice me on this.

Husband preventing the wife from visiting her father

Q: I am married for the last 9 years. My mother died when I was 16. We are only two sisters and my father is all alone as I don't have any brother. My question is that what responsibilities do I have toward my father? My husband doesn't like me to visit my family. My father is even deprived of his grandchildren. As a daughter I really feel very pity for my father and as a wife I can't disobey my husband. Few months back I tried to convince my husband that he is wrong on his part and is doing injustice with me and my father. He got angry and has not talked to me since last three months. He is working abroad and few days back has come to India. He still ignores me as if I don't exist neither does he sleep with me. It hurts me a lot as I love him very much. But now it seems he has started hating me. He is also very short tempered and gets fits of anger. I told him sorry but he told me to go away. I am very disturbed and I don't know what to do. His parents are of no help and often blame me for everything. Can you please suggest me some wazifa to melt his heart so that he starts loving me again. I need some very powerful wazifa which will work very fast because he will be in India only for a week. Please save my marriage.

Adultery

Q: I went with a guy to his house three times when his family was away and without the knowledge of my own family. We kissed and I removed my shirt for him and he sucked and licked my breasts, but I kept my pants on and we did not have any sexual intercourse. We just got intimate to this extent and nothing more. I am now regretful of all of this and want to repent sincerely to Allah. Will this be considered as committing adultery? How do I ask for Allah's forgiveness?

Tawbah after throwing one's turban on the ground in anger

Q: My friend has a question about tawbah. Once he was very angry and threw his Imamah on the ground. He now keeps thinking it will be a means for
his loss in knowledge. Right away he regretted his actions. He wants to know, does proper sincere taubah for all such actions related to Azmat of things such as the Imamah reverse any ill effects? ( he says he will never do such disrespect to anything).

Inappropriate company

Q: My husband thinks I am a salafi, just because I say "salafi" things. But I am not, I am only asking such things, so he could clarify for me. I always ask whether what i'm saying is correct or not. But he jumps to conclusions and accuses me of becoming a salafi, and believing the statements I say (which I  don't!). I have a few salafi colleagues, who talk about things and I always come home and ask him. I admit before I was married I used to believe what they said because I didn't know what was correct or not, but now I know, I always ask. We always end up arguing about these things, and he gets angry and makes a scene. I tell him to shut up, which I know is rude. But I don't want his whole family to hear us arguing. What shall I do?