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Not exposing the Husband faults

13 years ago By admin

Q: I have come to a point where I don't know what to do. My husband lies a lot and when I find out about it, he gets defensive and tries to justify himself and looks for loopholes, he has a habit of deceiving a person by not telling the whole truth. He is an Aalim and I'm getting very tempted to expose his behaviour publicly!!  Last week we were at his parents home and the house phone was ringing and he didn't answer, it was his father phoning and when his father returned and asked him why he didn't answer, he said that he was outside. Now according to them, they understood outside the house, whereas he was outside the room!!! I don't know what's wrong with him!! No ways can this be the shariah! Its pure deception. He lies about every small silly thing!! Its sickening!! Is there anything that I can do??

Problems in the Middle East

13 years ago By admin

Q: Here in our small Muslim community in U.K. we hear a lot of things happening in the Middle East Syria etc. from people amongst us who went there. Horrible things are being done to our Muslim brothers and sisters there and it is really pitiable. So when does it becomes compulsory upon us to answer the call of these oppressed Muslim brothers and sisters? Will we be sinners if we don’t answer their call?

Suspicions

13 years ago By admin

Q: I need help since we moved to our other house which we bought in 2003. First we came to stay in this house, then we moved to our old house in 2005. Then again we moved to this house in 2010. Since we moved we having a lots of problem. From very first night my son got accident. Most we got accident, breaking. I made istikhara so many times but I got no answer. Can you make istikhara on behalf of us is this house we should leave or stay here?​

Mashwarah

13 years ago By admin

Q: A family whom were having feud for many years sat down to resolve certain issues they were having. From the initial stage, there was shouting and yelling and they seems to be at each other’s throat. The meeting was adjourned with advice of one of the six brothers who mentioned there will be no barakat or success since we left out the name of Allah Ta'ala and Durood on Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and due to the extreme anger of the brothers. We mentioned that there is a proper way to conduct these gatherings which are governed by the Shariah and life of our Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam. We informed them that we will attain these rules and regulations from the Ulema-a-Karam. With this said it was agreed that another meeting will met set. Can mufti Saheb give us these rules and regulations so that we all can follow them? How should these gathering be conducted? If someone gets angry and starts fuming their anger at each other, how should we calm them down or what should others do? How would and should an Alim conduct these feud and conflicts?

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