Advice

Suspicions

Q: I need help since we moved to our other house which we bought in 2003. First we came to stay in this house, then we moved to our old house in 2005. Then again we moved to this house in 2010. Since we moved we having a lots of problem. From very first night my son got accident. Most we got accident, breaking. I made istikhara so many times but I got no answer. Can you make istikhara on behalf of us is this house we should leave or stay here?​

Mashwarah

Q: A family whom were having feud for many years sat down to resolve certain issues they were having. From the initial stage, there was shouting and yelling and they seems to be at each other’s throat. The meeting was adjourned with advice of one of the six brothers who mentioned there will be no barakat or success since we left out the name of Allah Ta'ala and Durood on Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and due to the extreme anger of the brothers. We mentioned that there is a proper way to conduct these gatherings which are governed by the Shariah and life of our Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam. We informed them that we will attain these rules and regulations from the Ulema-a-Karam. With this said it was agreed that another meeting will met set. Can mufti Saheb give us these rules and regulations so that we all can follow them? How should these gathering be conducted? If someone gets angry and starts fuming their anger at each other, how should we calm them down or what should others do? How would and should an Alim conduct these feud and conflicts?