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Biwi se kehna ke "aaj ke baad tm se baat nhi krenge"

Q: Hum gusse me apni wife se bolte hai ki aaj ke baad tm se baat nhi krenge aaj ke baad tmhare pass nhi aayenge naa tm ko apne pass aane denge naa tmhara chehra dekhenge lekin phir one week baat nhi krte hai phir jb gussa khatm ho jaata hai phir sab kuch normally ho jaata hai lekin kuch bhi ye sab bolte hai talaq ke neeyat se nhi bolte hai is se hmara nikah pr koi asar to nhi padta hai naa?

Haraam taalluq

Q: Mera sawal yeh ha ke mjy aik larki se mohabbat ha mgar is mohabbat se pehly ma kafi sare gunah ka murtakib tha mgar us larki se talauq ke bad mujy Allah ki pehchan mili ha mjy sufiyana rung mila ha ab ma Alhamdulillah paanch waqt ka namazi bhi hu owr apny gunahon se toba bhi krta hu har wqt Allah ki zikr r Astaghfar se Zuban tar rehti ha hm 2no ki mgar us se phone pe bat krta hn r kbi b by hayai ki bat hm dono me ni hui wo bi muj se mohabbat krti ha hm dono nikah ki khalis niyat rkhty hen mgar aaj k dor k halat ap khud janty hen smj ni aata kia kia jay mgar hm Allah Tala se aik dosray k haq me dua krty hen k Allah pak hme nikah k pak bandhan me jor dy hmari mohabbat sirf Allah ki raza ha r hm aksar hi Islamic topic pe guftagoo krty hen us k halat pasmanda hony ki wja se ma us ki maali madad bhi kr deta hn kia ac mali madad jazz ha. us se nohabbat k bad mjy Allah ki zaat pe sobh k taloh hony ki trah yaqeen ha mgar sawal yeh ha k hmara tauluq jazz ha ya na jaz jb k hm apny nafs ko nikah hony se pehly tk qaboo me rkhtay hen r Allah ki panah chahty hen hmari rehnumai krain kahin hm Allah k azab ki zad me na aa jayen plz jald Rehnumai krain.

Zakaat owr sadaqah

Q: Me apni mali pareshani door karny ke liye apni salary se har month kuch pesa nikalna chahty hon, taky jo bhi mali pareshani hy woh door ho. Aap yeh batain ke yeh pese kis tarhan or kis niyat se nikaly jayen gay. Aya ZAKAT ki niyat se ye SADQY ki niyat se. Or kia har month nikalna zaroori hy ya saal me ek dafa. Agar har month nikaly jaye to us me koi harj to nahi hy. Main pehly se 2.5 % (Dhai Fesad) nikalta aa raha hon apni salary ka jo mustahiq ko jata hy. Magar phir bhi haalat wese hi hain or abhi tak ZAKAT ke naam se nikal raha tha. To kia woh tarika ghalat tha? Kia yeh pese sadaqay ki niyat se nikalny chahye thay or koi or tariqa ho to woh bhi bataye.

Namaaz main gande khiyaalaat

Q: Mujeh namaaz main gandeh khiyaalaat aate hain or galiya nikalti hain. Main apne dhiyaan ko khob contorol krta hu. To nahi hota waju banata hu to khayalat or dil me kisi ko dekh kar gali nikala krti hain. Or mujhpar bhot jimmedari aagai he to meri rozi roti bhi ni jam pa rahi hain. Aap meri kuch madad kr sake wajifat sain amal se to jarur kijiye main nek or parehzgaar banna chahta hu.