dua

Q: Should we read a dua when the imam reads the last verses of Surah Gashiyah?

Q: Can we read "rabbana hablana min azwajina.....imama" and "rabana aatina fidduniya hasanah......waqina azab-al-meezan" in namaz after durood and before salam?

Q: My question is related to the relation of mine with my father as it is getting worse day by day. I am 22 years old. We belong to a middle class family and about 4 years ago we bought internet connection. My father is 56 years old now and when we bought the internet connection I was 18 and my father was 52. One day I saw my father watching porn on the internet and for me it was so heart breaking that I got shocked with the kind of mentality my father has. For some time I stayed silent that he might change his habits and for that I gave him some signals that I am aware of what he is doing when alone and at that time my sisters age was 12 years. I was more concerned that she might see him doing all this stuff and just few days later I saw my father was busy watching porn while my sister was standing behind him. On that particular day I broke my silence and told my mom about the whole incident. She talked to him and my father rejected my allegations upon him. This thing continued for about one year and he was losing his respect in my eyes. Last year we connected our tv set to cable and now he just watches tv, some movies and songs with bad dance. I dont like this also but I am silent as it is somehow better than what he was used to do. What I want to say is that he is stubborn and I do not respect him the same way like I used to or you can say that he has lost his respect. Our tv set is in front of my bed and I dont want him to sit on my bed when I am around, not because I do not respect him but because he used to sit in front of tv every time when he is free and for hours and I want my space on my bed because our house is small.

My question is that what should I do according to Islam and can I respect him or change him? Also, he has the habit of talking in loud voice and we hardly talk to eachother daily as my other relatives talk to their fathers.

Q: Mera sawaal tha ke agar ham koi tasbih padh rhe hai or bech mai koi huzur e paak (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ka naam le to ham tasbih rokke durur padhe ya tasbih puri krke or aise he ham tasbih padhte hue masjid se nikl jae to tasbih rokke maajid se bahar niklne ki dua padhe ya tasbih puri karke.

Q:

1. Is a person considered a Kafir if he or she does not believe in Taqdeer (Destiny)?

2. Can Dua change Taqdeer? Some scholars say that dua can change Taqdeer while others say dua cannot change Taqdeer. I am confused.

Q: What is the correct ضبط of the following Duaa: اللهم اجرني في مصيبتي واخلف لي خيرا منها?

Q:

1. Can you recite Quranic duas when you are in the state of janabah state?

2. Can you recite the last surahs and ayatul kursi for protection when you are in the state of janabah?

Q: Is it right to ask Allah for the love of a person yiu want to marry, with pure intentions? If it is, is there any specific dua or amal for it?

Q: In a bathroom, if one puts the toilet in a cubicle which has a door upto neck height, then in the rest of the bathroom e.g. wudhu khana, can one read the duas etc with Allah's name? How high does the toilet door have to be?