Beautification

Buying expensive attars

Q: I want to buy attars that cost between R2000 and R4000 a bottle, but due to the high price, I fear it will displease Allah Ta'ala or it is not befitting of someone aspiring to be close to Allah Ta'ala. Is it fine for me to buy such attars? 

Female using men's itr

Q: I've got an itr which I'm not certain if it is meant for males or females (but I strongly think its a men's itr). Will it be permissible for me, as a female, to use that itr in the house or will it be counted as imitating men?