adopting purda

Thoughts of shirk

7 years ago By user2

Q: I have this problem for long time. It first started with a small doubt and after that it felt like if I do anything, bad or a sin, it's shirk because that means that I am giving more importance to it than Allah. I felt like talking to girls is forbidden so if I talk to girls it's shirk. So if I talk to girls then I am giving more importance to talk to girls than to Allah. So then I stopped talking. For a few days I ignore this thought and talked to girls, then I felt like I am committing shirk. One part of me was like it's not really shirk, if  I make it as shirk allah will forgive and u can do that as a normal sin. After some time its gone, then that thought comes that whatever I do when I watch a movie or whenever I talk to my friend. After a while those thoughts disappear. I ignore those thoughts and live my life as normal Muslims and now those kinds of thoughts strted coming even stronger. Whatever I do, those kind of thoughts are coming that if its shirk, I'll stop doing it. Is doing this confusion and this mindset shirk or not? Because I feel like even if it is not shirk by doing this mean I am ok with this even it's shirk but am not ok .. I now these things are sin ins Islam but these are not shirk ryt even am confused to talk to mom this is not not only for this matter even when i talk with my frndz these kind of thoughts are coming ? So I thought these friend or anyone not more important than Allah am talking to them as normAl as other muslims talks without giving more important but then my mind was like these things are not shirk ok I are not giving important to them but previous which U thought in beginning u did with doubts no so those are shirk even if I talk without giving more important and as normal I make this as shirk so now if I do that it shirk ...so now doing these things which are not actually shirk is shirk or not ?? Is there is anything I can do to make those things as normal sin or normal thing because these thoughts came from waswas problem no please give me some solutions ... nd help me to understand are these things are shirk or not ? Is theres anything I can do to be normal

Khwaab ki ta'beer

7 years ago By user2

Q: Mene ek khwab dekha he jisme khudko hamila dekha h mai hospital mai hu kisine kaha h mujhse 4 rang k kapro k tukre pani mai baha do aur ye kalimat parho mene likh liye h wo kalimat kagaz pr aur kapre ki dukan se jakr 5 rang k tukre kharide h 70/- mai lal hara nila pila aur safeed. Abhi mujhe do lafz yd h kalimat ke subha neend se jagkr latefun aur kabeerun is khwab ki tabeer kya he

Dream

7 years ago By user2

Q: I saw a dream today. In my dream I was going to marry my nephew (my cousin sisters son). I was taken to his house (actually my neighbours house) for preparation at night time and there I meet his father, brother and his aunty and my real sister. His father and brother and my sister handshake with me and his aunty hugged me and she was angry on me because I didn't hug her properly in Islamic way or in sunni way. After that I come to know that my mother bought me only 4 dress so I got angry on her and he was watching me. Next I saw myself in a mirror I was meaning cap and hairs open on my both shoulders.

Haraam taalluq

8 years ago By admin

Q: Main apne czn ke sath bhut mohhabt krti hun or woh bhi karta hy or shadi ke lie us ke gahr main bhut masail hain woh ghar walu se bat krny k lie agree nhi hy pls koi aisa wazifa baten meri help karin ke meri shadi asani se uske sath hojye.

Dream

8 years ago By admin

Q: In my a dream I offered a male relative who is a doctor breakfast at my home. I offered to make eggs and he accepted. When I entered my kitchen I saw that there was a lot of food that was covered with a cloth that was sent by someone. I decided to make him an egg anyway. I gave him an empty plate and returned to the kitchen to cook the egg. He followed me and changed the plate for another one. I asked him why and he said that the other plate was chipped. When I went back to look at it, I saw it was badly chipped. I made and egg and while cooking it I saw a strand of my hair in it. I pulled it out and gave it to him to eat. He seemed to have enjoyed it so I decided to make more. While cooking more eggs I again saw hair in it. This time I tried pulling out the hair but there seemed to be much more hair inside and I was failing to take out so much hair. My husband entered the kitchen to check why I was taking so long to make eggs and when he saw all the hair he was embarrassed and started shouting me.

Observing purda with all non-mahrams

8 years ago By admin

Q: Last night I saw a dream. In my dream I am happily talking with a person and it seems I like him but that person is not known to me. After a while I saw my self wearing green dress and I am with a another person who is wearing a white dress and we entered into a morgue. There I saw a dead body (with whom I talked happily first). Is it a bad dream? I saw it at fajr time so I am worried.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

8 years ago By admin

Q: Maine khawab dekha ke me apne gharwalo ke sath biryani kaha raha hu uske baad mujhe kuch coins milte hai jinhe me apni pocket me rakhta hu.uske baad meri ammi mere pass ati hai milne ke liye unhe me apne dosto se milata hu or ek mera dost restaurant me roti banane ka kaam karta hai me apni ammi ko usse milane lekar jata hu to wo muskurakar kehta hai achi hai teri ammi magar dusre ki hai to mujhe iss baat ka bura lagta hai to me waha per thuk kar chala ata hu Iss khawab ka kya matlab hua?

Subscribe to adopting purda