Q: Can a woman obtain a fasakh on the basis of non-nafakah (not buying clothes and not providing a roof over our head and letting his wife and children live off his mother in-law) on financial and emotional abuse and not spending time with his children? Also spending all his free time with his half brother and cousin fixing vans.
Q: Before 8 years back I was loving a girl and she also but we never talked just we both know that we are in love and I am getting dreams of her daily and when I wake up I forget the dreams. I think that she is in some problem.
Q: Mufi Saheb as my marriage is nearer I am in a tension because Mufi saheb someone when I was small not baligh raped me. (ye sab mere ghar walon ko nahi pta..or mene sharm k mare kisi ko nahi bataya..). He did all the things that a husband do with his wife. Mufti saheb her waqt demagh mein ek tension rehti hai kahin aisa na ho shadi ki pehli rat hi husband mujhe talaaq de de or mere abba jan ko jo ke ek boht mashur insan hain unko beizzati ka samna karna pade. Mufti Saheb main kya karu? Please kuch bataiye. Hazrat ek ladka hai jo mujhe boht pasand karta hai na maine usko dekha na usne mujhe ko. Na hi hum ek dusre se bat karte hain. Ladke ki maan ne dekh rakha hai mujhe. Usne mere ghar 50-60 bar risha bheja hoga mere lye lekn mere ghar wale kehte hain ke uska koi buisenis nahi hai wo boht gareb hai. Hum tumhari shadi kisi ameer gharane mein karenge. Lekin Mufti Saheb main chaahti hun ke jab wo mujhe itna chaahta hi hai to kiyu na main usi se shadi kar lun kiyunki mujhe ye khof rehta hai ke agr kisi anjan se shadi kar li to wo mujhe talaq na de de mere istemalshuda hone ki wajeh se. Mufi Saheb please guide me. Please kuch bataiye main boht tension mein hun.
Q: I have something that has been troubling me. My husband told me he had a male call him in a private number accusing him of having an affair with this man's wife then he goes on to tell that, that man then tells that I am having something to do with him which highly got me angry which I know is a lie. I phoned a service provider enquiring if I can trace a private call so I can prove my innocence I asked my husband to take me to police station to open up a case against that private call but he refused to take me he said he will sort it out but he doesn't want to take me. Then my husband tells me that the station police told him that they can only see the area which person is calling from but not the actual person which I believe is a lie because all sim cards are registered. Customer care told they can trace a private call but my husband is adamant that it can't be done and private call is only coming when he is not at home. So I don't know if my husband is trying to defame me or trying to accuse me of something and it is really disturbing me a lot and causing discomfort. Please advise me I don't want to leave any stones unturned I want to get to the bottom of the truth.
Q: There is a family who want to come to my parents to ask for a marriage proposal for their son and me. I appreciate their son and I agree for their proposal. But my parents don't let them come. They don't want to even hear about their proposal because of their cast. We are Pakistani. We are from the upper cast and their are from the lower one. My parents don't know the guy nor his family but they are not even ready to meet them. They told me that they prefer keeping me unmarried than marry me to this guy because of cast, because of the dunya. They told me that what would they say to the people if I marry that guy. Is their reaction right in Islam? If the guy agrees for the marriage and I agree too, if both of us are happy with this marriage, is it right for my parents to stop the marriage, to not let it happen? I am 26 and the guy's family want to come since 2014, it has been 2 years that my parents refuse and delay my marriage whereas the guy is religious. Please can you help me and reply to my questions about it.
Q: My naseeb is very bad, everything goes wrong with me to whom I belive they give me dhoka, even Allah. What I commence, I never get done. What to do. Please help.
Q: Mujhey apni bhanji ke bare main pochna hai 5 years old hai. Masha allah kafi tez hai, confidense hai, samjdar bachi hai magr bht shetan hai apni walida ko bhot tang karti hai uski walida apni beti ki waja se bahr nahi niklti kisi k ghar nahi jati r beti b bht chirchiri si ho gai hai walida betha k samjhati hai phr jo dil kehta hai wahi karti hai koi wazeefa bataen jis se meri bhanji apni maa ko tang na kare jazaka allah.
Q: Mujhey apni walidah maajida ke bare main pochna hai ke wo apne beton se kafi pareshan hain bete apni walida ka kaha nahi mante owr namaz ke bhi paaband nahi hai. Deen se bhot door hain owr unke husband yani mere walid saheb bhi apni dunya main lagye howe hain. Meri maa ne u samjhe k apni zindagi main na susral se koi khushi mili na husband se owr nahi beton se jinki waja se wo hamesha pareshan rehti hai inhi pareshanion ki waja se wo bp ki mareeza hai kafi chirchiri ho gai hain main ne socha aap se apna masla share karon shayad aap koi haal bataden hadith owr Quran ki roshni main. Aap please koi hal bataden jis se unhe koi sukoon ho r bete maa ki farmabardar rahen r deen se bhi wabesta hon.
Q: Meri shaadi ko 11 saal hogy hai. Mere teen bache hai. Mere shauhar ka mujhe har baar bura bhala kehna gande lafz waparna talak ki dhamkiya dena bht rude behaviour saal se raha bacho par bhi unka kuch khass aur ghar ka. Mera kisi par bhi unka dhyaan kb na tha ab baat yeh hai ki mujhe apne shauhar se bht nafrat si hogy hai aur un ke sth jismani talokat banana mujhe bht ganda lagta hai mujhe bilkul bhi mann nh hota balki gunah lagta hai mera jism mujhe bilkul bhi izzazat nh deta mere bache bhi bht thakgy hai unke baap ke behaviour se is surat me kya karna chahiye hazrat mujhe islam aur sunni shariat se batae.
Q: Mey bohot paresan ho is bat ko lekar ke- Maine meri bara bhai ke biwi ke sath jabardasti karke oske breast ko dabaya owr kiss kya,Phir ek din jabardasti karke oske body ke opar oth kar osku kiss kya owr oske breast ko dabaya owr moh lagaya ,aise karte karte mere sharamgah se mera Mani apni app nikal gaya. Aise harkat koi martaba ki ,lekin humbistari nahi ho paye.Owr har martabh hone ke bad maine taubah bhi ke owr is gumah se dor rehne ke kosis ke , lakin shaitan ke oswas ke bajah se bar bar ho gaye. Mey is kaam se door rehne ke bahat kosis kar raha ho. Is bar 15 din se yeah sab bandh he owr onhone mere sath bat bhi nahi kar raha hai owr oh bahat gusse me he. Mey ab yeah sab bat ko lekar bahat presan ho -
1. Kya meh ose supke se maffi mangna parega? Agar onhone muje maaf nahi ke toh Khoda Talla muje maaf karega?
2. Mere is harkat ke bagah se kya onka nikah totagi kya?
3. Maine toh onke sath humbistari nahi ke toh Kia yeah jina hoa he?
4. Kya mere is harkat ke bat oh mere bhai ke sath taluq rakhna jaiz hoga yeah dubara nikah karna parega? Agar dubara nikah karna pare toh bahat bara hungama ho jayege or jagrafasad hojaye ge hamara garme.phir me ghar me bhi nahi reh sakonga owr kise ko moh nahi dekha paunga sharmandi ke bajah se. Kyu ke yahi bat onhone hamari garme kise ko nahi bataya aj tak onke ijjat ke khatir. Islye me bahat presan ho please mufti sahab app koi hal nikal dejije. Apki bahat meherbani hogi.