waswasas

Doubts

Q: Please help me. I am in too much waswasa. I always doubt about wet dream. Whenever I wake up after sleep I always doubt that I have some sensation at private area and always thought I have wet dream or not.

1) If I feel some sensation at private area in sleep but not feel aroused or not remember any wet dream but feel wetness ghusl wajib on me?

1.2) In same situation if I don't feel any wetness but after few minutes during istinja I saw white and transparent discharge.

2) Many times I don't remember any thing about dream but I only remember a guy and feel wetness.

3) I always have doubt after every sleep and I perform ritual bath many times. Please reply me I am in overwhelming waswsa sleeping become a nightmare for me.

Wasaawis owr shubuhaat

س: جناب عالی میں اپنے اس مسئلہ کی وجہ سے بہت پریشان ہوں اگر ہو سکے تو میری راہنمائی فرمائیے۔ اللہ پاک آپ کو اس کی جزا دے۔ جناب عالی میرا مسئلہ یہ ہے کہ میرا کام زیادہ تر کمپیوٹر پہ ہوتا ہے جس کی وجہ سے زیادہ تر کرسی پہ بیٹھنا پڑتا ہے ۔ جناب عالی جب میں فارغ بیٹھتا ہوں تو مجھے ایسا محسوس ہوتا ہے کہ جیسے پیشاب کے قطرے نکلتے ہیں حالانکہ جب میں مصروف ہوتا ہوں تو ایسا محسوس نہیں ہوتا اور نہ ہی جب میں کھڑا ہوتا ہوں اس وقت کچھ محسوس ہوتا ہے۔ جب میں فارغ ہوتا ہوں تبھی اسی وقت ایسا محسوس ہوتا ہے اور اس کی وجہ سے بار بار بیت الخلاء جانا پڑتا ہے لیکن وہاں جا کے دیکھتا ہوں تو سارا حصہ خشک ہوتا ہے بعض دفعہ ایسا لگتا ہے کہ کہیں کوئی ہلکا سا کوئی قطرہ ہے جو کہ واضح نہیں لگتا اتنا۔ پھر میں سوچتا ہوں کہ یہ جو پہلے پانی سے دھویا تھا شاید اسکا کوئی قطرہ ہے ۔ جناب میرا سوال ہے کہ ایسی صورتحال میں میں نماز کیسے ادا کر سکتا ہوں اور کیا مجھ پہ غسل واجب ہے۔ برائے مہربانی مجھے اسکا علاج یا جواب جلدی ارسال فرمائیے آپ کی بہت نوازش ہوگی ۔ اللہ آپکو اسکا اجر عطا فرمائے گا۔ مجھے آپکے جواب کا شدت سے انتطار ہے ۔برائے کرم میری راہنمائی فرمایئے۔

Doubts with regards to utensils being paak

Q: I used to eat haraam meat astaghfirullah. The najis meat was mixed with najis meat sauce and came into contact with plates, glasses and cutlery, therefore making them najis too. I cannot remember if I cleaned the plates/glasses/cutlery afterwards. However, I don't think they would have been left unwashed because plates glasses and cutlery are regularly washed in my house, especially by my mother. Additionally, it's been around 3-4 months since the plates/glasses/cutlery came in contact with najis (because I've stopped eating haram meat alhamdulillah) and in that time many of them have been used and washed several times by people in my house. Please bear in mind that I have many plates, glasses & cutlery in my house, and I cannot be sure which exact ones came in contact with the najis food. Do I assume them all now to be tahir, or najis? Will najis transfer on my hands and mouth through wetness, or if I eat wet food like curry off them? Please don't say "if there are no traces assume purity" because I've already come into contact with these items through wetness or eaten things like curry off them without checking for traces of impurity beforehand. And after eating wet food off the plates, my spit came into contact with some of my clothes. Additionally, what I may perceive to be traces of the haram meat could be remains from the halal meat cooked by my mother.

Talaaq ke baare me shaq owr subuhaat

Q: My question is I went to the other room where my daughter and husband was sitting I just opened the door he just turn on the heater to warm up the room he shouted at me that come in and shut the door I closed the door but culdnt properly shut then he shouted more then I shut it properly he started speak I was silent actually we r expecting for visa so am telling whole story that u understand so ma room as baat kiya bagaire Barton utha k janay lagi tu kaha ab baat kiya bagaire ja rahi hon tu ma na kaha k ma app as baat nahi kerny ayi thi tu bas start Ho Gaya he said ( kam Ho tu Jaan jhotay matlab visa lagnay ki baat Ho rahi ha kaha kam Ho tu Jaan jhotay or phir kahi or zindgi start ki jaiya waisay b tum rehnay ky qabil nahi rahi kaya maray palay per gayi ha ma chup chap darwazy per khari Ho ker sunti rahi or Roma start ker diya kyn k mujy itna kuch suna para jb k koi itni Bari baat b nahi Ma apni beti Ho ly ker dosray room mein aa gayi aur wo boltay rahay mujy clear awaz nahi aa rahi thi ab 2 sawal hain ju baat maray Samany hoiyi kaya un baton sa koi farak parta ha dosra Jin baton ki awaz mujy nahi ayi clear tu un ky baray mein ma kaya sochu kyn ma buht prashan hon pata nahi mufti sahib meri zindgi ky sath kaya Ho raha ha please guide me.

Doubts regarding purity

Q: I was going through a bad situation where I was having trouble controlling my bladder and with waswasas, this resulted in me urinating myself a bit and also rushing to the toilet resulting in urine getting on my body and on my clothes and on the floor and also sometimes sitting on napaak toilet seats and this resulted in a lot of waswasas, but now I have got medical help things are better but when I was going through the bad situation I either knowingly or unknowingly made things napaak without thinking. I would have touched doors or walls without thinking and also the clothes that I was wearing which were napaak will have touched things whilst I was walking or I may have sat on things or the floor whilst I was napaak or walked whilst my feet were napaak. The thing is I can't really remember what is napaak and what isn't or where did I sit or what did I touch and those things that I do remember I'm not really sure what to do about it and some of it is in public places like the musjid, I always tried my best thinking things over and over again and I have a lot of doubts about what I made napaak so what shall I do?

Bure khiyaalaat

Q: Mujhy aysi khiyalaat aty ha ke me Allah Ta'ala ki shaan me ghustakhi kar raha hun. In khiualat ko me jitna hata ta Hun to utny hi aty Han mera swaal ye ha is say mere imman per koi fark to nahi perhy ga or me in ko kase hato.

Doubts with regards to wet dreams

Q: I do suffer from wawasas but Alhamdulilah I am ignoring them to the utmost level. However, some times after Fajr salah I sleep and later on waking I doubt if I had a wet dream or not. Sometimes I remember and do ghusl sometimes I don't remember the dream and see no discharge still I doubt throughout the day. What should I do?

Doubts with regards to one's Hajj being valid

Q: I am an extremely doubtful person. I always have doubts about purification. I always feels I had missed something in wudhu and ghusl. I had performed hajj 3 years ago alhamdulilah. I had performed all thing step by step there was no doubt at that time. After that sometimes a doubt came in my mind whether I had done wudhu and ghusl properly and completely or I had missed something at time of Tawaf-E-Ziyarat. I am also not sure about this. I try to remember but I can't. So should I give dam for this doubt? And my wife would be halaal for me? Please kindly advice me. I am very frustrated with this.

Shaitaan ka dhoka

Q: Main bohut paresan hoon ke shayad main Islam se kharij ho chuka hoon or main jahanam main jane wala hoon kyun ki mujhe har waqt asa lagta hai ki mera sharamgah se kuch nikal raha hai or main jab pant check karta hoon to kabi Kabi 1 ya 2 boond kuch milta hai or khabi khabi nehi milta hai or khabi khabi doubt main chala jaa ta hai is waja se mera salat thik se nehi ho pata hai or koi kam bhi nahi kar pata hoon. Aysa lagta hai har chiz mere waja se najis ho raha hai or jab se mujhe pata chala hai hand practice kabira gunha hai Maine he v chor diya hai. Har bar nahana possible nehi hota or kapda v badalna possible nehi ho pata hai. Mujhe asa lagta hai ki Allah mujse bouhout naraj hai. Please mera help kijiye...