ta'leem

Biwi shohar ki baat na maane

Q: Agar koi aurat apne shohar ki baat na maane or apni maan maani kare to kiya karna chahye. Agar ek aurat apne maa baap bhai behan ko apne shohar se ziyada ihamiyat de to kiya karna chaye ya iske ke liye koi dua hai taa kae aurat ko sahe raasta dikaya ja sake shohar ke lac samjaete asa kare to kiya karna chaye.

Solution to family problems

Q: I have some family problems now a days..nothing was like this before..my younger brother never behaved like this before..now he stands in front of father ..argue with him even ready for quarrel..he was most obedient of us bt now his behavior is totally changed in a week...his age is 17 years..also there are many other problems which have started at once..i want peace in my house before...is there any special dua or prayer for it??plz help me out

Handling negativity from one's parents

Q: I always faced the issue of how to handle the negativity from parents. I always tend to believe that as a child, good qualities were always acquired from other relatives or good personalities Allah gave in my life but not from my parents. I'm in struggle between the fact that they are my Wali but have had hard time putting up with their character and practices! I'm answerable to Allah if I don't have a right attitude towards parents. But I am not able to put up with their negativity. What to do?

Thoughts of shirk

Q: Because of some thoughts that came to my mind, I thought talking to a friend is shirk so I planned to stop talking. For that I called that person and informed that person that I won't be talking to that person anymore and that is tha last time I was going to talk. We talked for while, when I was talking I felt like I was committing shirk by talking to that person then I thought that I will commit shirk this time and ask for forgiveness from Allah and stop talking to that person. After that incident I got to know that it was not shirk to talk to that person so they told me to talk to that person now am talking to that person but still am confused that if I was ready to commit shirk because of that person did that mean I comit shirk and I gave more priority to that person than Allah because in that time I thought to commit shirk one time and ask for forgiveness so after I think like that is it shirk to talk to that person now ??? Is there is any way to make it normal ... I asked forgiveness from Allah if I have committed any shirk and now am talking to that person as normal because that person is not more important than Allah but still .. is there is any shirk in talking to that person now ???? Or did I commit any shirk by thinking like that while talking that guy?

Method of conducting ta'leem

Q: We are 4-5 ladies having taleem weekly in a small town. We read from Fazail e amal and sunnah kitaab, questions and answers (those which we cannot answer, we answer the following week). Ladies want us to talk also about akhlaaq, death, etc. Kindly recommend kitaabs we can use and also provide correct format of having taleem and any other things we can discuss. Also duaa to be recited at ending of taleem.

Method of giving up watching TV

Q: My parents have always guided me away from certain sins and I would say that they are Islamically inclined in that they read all salaahs, abundant Quran and stay away from most sins. However, the one habit I've noticed that they seem unable to give up is their addiction to watching television. They watch Indian soapies and Hollywood/Bollywood movies till late at night. Sometimes I think they fall asleep with their TV switched on. Sometimes they will be watching a funny video or an interesting movie while I am getting something from their room and they'd tell me to come and sit down and watch with them. I have just recently begun cutting tv out of my life and as much as I want to watch as well, I feel guilty while doing so. What dua can I read so that my parents will stop watching TV and will get more hidayat? And what can I read to strengthen my willpower so that I will not get tempted to watch TV or commit any other sins?

Ghar ke haalaat saheeh karne ka tareeqah

Q: Meri halat bahut kharab hai mere abu bahut bade zalim hai zulm kerte hai choti choti baat pe gussa kerte hai dil dhukate hai hume bahut kaid kiya howa hai hum sisters aur mom ko koi azaadi nahi hai bes ghar me kaid hai zulm ki zindagi hai humari duniya ke saare girls season humari zindagi alag hai bahut boring halloween hai humari please Allah ke waaste ek wazifa kuch to dejiye ki Allah abu ko hamesha ke liye hidayat de aam insane bane hum pe zulm nahi kare gussa bhi nahi kare humari marzi se chale.