kaffarah

Anal sex with wife

Q: I want to know what is the kafara of doing anal sex with your wife when she is in her monthly periods . The husband claims that it was by mistake but the wife said that it was on purpose and this thing happened the second time and the first time both agreed that it was by mistake. I know there is a way in Islam to batch up with your wife if a person does toubah and promises not to do this thing again but what will be the kafarah?

Har qasam torne ka kaffarah

Q: Main bohut ziada pareshan hun.. Mene takreeban 2 saal pehle Gunah se tobah ki Zina se tobah aur Allah ki qasam khae thi k ainda aesa nae karunga... Magr mjhe shetan ne bohut behkaya ghalat rastey per lagaya aur mjhse wo qasam toot gae.. Ab masla yeh hai k mjhse wo qasam bohut baar tooti magar mene kaffara ada nae kiya... Ab mjhe bohut sharmindgi hai bohut ziada pareshan hun.. Dil se Allah se tobah ki hai aur ab main kaffara ada karna chahta hun.. Mjhe kaffare ka pata hai k kia kia karna hai lekin mera sawal ye k mjhse aik ki kasam tooti hai br br aur kaffara ada nae kia hwa tou kia main baar baar ada karun kaffara ya aik br ada karun q k mjhse kasam tooti aur main gunah kerta gaya aur kaffara ada nae kia.. kaffara dena ka baad main pata chala ab mjhe bohut ehsaas hai..please meri madad kijiye.. Allah apko iska ajer den.. Main bohut sharminda hun suche dil se.. Main kaffara ada krna chahta hun.. Mjhe nae maloom k kitni baar gunah hwa mjhse Ab kaffara Alag alag ada krna hai ya aik hi baar ada karun..

Not fulfilling a vow

Q: My wife has asked this question, she lost something and in emotion she made a mannat that she will recite 11 times Surah Yaseen, 5 times the next day and 6 times the day after when she will find that thing. Now she has found that thing but forgot to recite the first day, i.e. 5 times Surah Yaseen. The question is, is there any kafarah for that?

Breaking an oath

Q: When I was in grade 7, around the age of 13, I'm not sure whether I was baligh then, but our school went in a camp tour and at the camp some of the boys including me were swearing when we were talking. The camp instructors heard us swearing and reported us to the teachers who then threatened to report us to our parents. Me being young and terrified I said to my non Muslim teacher out of fear of my situation 'Kassam I won't swear again'. Does this count as an oath? Also when I was in grade 8 I felt ashame of an act that I committed so I said while making dua, "Forgive me for committing that act,  kassam I won't commit that act again" I haven't sworn or think I've used a swear word since and I've committed the second act about 10 times in the last 5 years.  

I want to know if this counts as a breaking an oath and what do I have to do to get forgiven? And do these oaths even count because I'm pretty sure I wasn't baligh for the first 'oath', and the second one I made when I was baligh while making dua I said those words ' kassam I won't do it again' Does the oath count?