Zina of the eyes and masturbation

Q: What should I do if I am unable to stop myself from committing fornication? Even in the month of Ramadhaan I committed adultery of the eyes and organs although I was observing fast? Whenever sexual desire increases, I could not stop committing zina. I m working 6 and half hours to earn money. Only way to stop myself from this sin is to stay in mosque. But it is almost impossible to remain inside mosque all the time. What should I do? Leave the job and join madarsah so that I get engaged in a good environment? Please advise me.

Behishti zewar

Q: Is there any comprehensive book for women in English? Like in Urdu We have *Tauhfa Khawateen* by Moulana Ashiq Ilahi Buland Shahri. Kindly Guide me about the Author & the Book in English.

Marital problems

Q: I am a 22 years old married girl. It's been 2 years that I am married and have no children yet because my husband wanted me to study further. I live with my in-laws and I am having problems with the way I feel ignored time to time. I sometimes am the centre of attention and other times they're all in a gloomy mood and I feel uncomfortable sitting between them. I want to be heard and I am having anxiety issues and other problems because of the stress I am taking. Kindly tell me an effective dua for value, importance and love between me and my family and a happy life, I would be grateful.

Questions relating to the masbooq (latecomer)

Q: Please advise on the following:

A) When making Salaah and if coming up from ruku, where one is supposed to have said,  SamiAllahu Liman Hamida, one said Allahu Akbar,  is the Salaah valid?

B) When the Imaam is in Ruku,  and the person joins the Salaah by making Takbeer Tahreemah,  folds his hand and thereafter recites Allahu Akbar again
and goes into ruku to join the Salaah behind the Imaam and make it for the Rakaat, Is the Salaah valid?

C) If one joins the Jamaat of Salaah when the Imaam is in Qadah, and one reads Takbeer Tahreemah,fold one's hands thereafter reads Allahu Akbar again,
and goes into Qadah to join Salaah, Is the Salaah valid?

D) What would be the best and most correct option of joining Salaah at the times mentioned in B and C above?

E) What is the status of reciting after the Imaam during Salaah when the Imaam goes into ruku, comes up from ruku, goes into Sajdah,  comes up from
Sajdah, basically after all the Takbeers and going into the next posture.

F) If after the Imaam comes up from ruku, saying Samiallahu Liman Hamida, What does the Muqtadee do? Does he also says Samiallahu Liman Hamida in
keeping with the above ( question E)

G) In also keeping with the above in question E,  if one recites Allahu Akbar instead of Samiallahu Liman Hamida, Is the Salaah valid?

H) In Qadah Ulaa or Qadah Akheera,  whilst reading Tashahud,  if one gets confused or makes a mistake after Saying  Ash Hadu Allah Illaha IllahAh, where one is supposed to raise one's index finger,  and where one already raised one finger,  but happen to go back to correct the mistake and start from the beginning again if one was confused, Should the index finger be raised again ( for the second time in correcting the mistake)?

I) What is the status of the raising of the index finger whilst in Tashahud?

J) If one joins Salaah behind the Imaam whilst the Imaam

J1) is in Qiraat (Busy reciting Surah Fatiha or  a Surah) of first Rakaat
J2) Ruku of the first Rakaat

When would be the correct time to read Thana?

K) If one misses one or two Rakaats of Salaah behind the Imaam,  when should one read Thana?  When joining the Salaah or when standing up to complete the
missed rakaats after the Imaam finished Salaah?

L) What is the correct procedure of completing Salaah if one missed 3 Rakaats of a 4 Rakaat Salaah?

M) What is the correct procedure of completing Salaah if one missed 2 Rakaats of 3 rakaat Salaah?

N) In Wudhu, what should one put water into the nostrils amd when should Khilaal of the beard, fingers and toes be made.( If the full and correct procedure of Wudhu with full Sunan be given it would be appreciated)

Hazrat Esa (Alayhis Salaam's) coming back to this world

Q: A christian asked me what do the Muslims believe about Hazrat Essa (Alayhis Salaam) when he returns to earth? She believes or has been told in the bible that Hazrat Essa (Alayhis Salaam) will return to earth get married to a beautiful lady and he will be the new ruler of this world. I replied that is incorrect. Yes, Hazrat Essa (Alayhis Salaaam), will return to this world, he will break the cross, kill the Dajjal. Please could you give me a better explanation. Though I do know as Muslim whatever we answer to these Christians they will never accept what we as Muslims know is the truth.