Waalid saheb ki taraf se sakhti

Q: Meri shaadi ko 12 saal ho gay hain. In 12 saalon me meray walid sahib ne kbi b meri wife ko bura nhi kaha. But 2 saal pehlay meray chotay Bhai ki shadi bradri se bahir hooi. Os ki bv intehai shatir aurat hai. Os ki wja se walid sahib ne 2 bar alehda kr chukay hain. Mukhtasir ye k wo ghr ka kaam b nhi krti. But walid sb phir b usi ka 7 detay hain. Pehli bar jb alehda kiya tha muje to walid sahib ne meray bachon se moon mor liya tha. Aur ab 2sri bar alehda kiya hai to phir b muj se, meri bv se aur meary bachon se moon mor liya hai. Muje queen hai k meray walid pr koi jadoo kiya gia hai. Q k chotay bhai ki bradri se bahir shadi pr koi b raza mnd nhi tha. Ab sb choti bhrjai k plray me hain. Muje guide kre k m is soort-e-hal me kia kroon? Q k walid sahib ne os bahoo ki khatir sb relatives se b moon mor liya hai. Walid sahib ko sirf wo aur ka paab hi nzr atay hai. Baqi kisi b rishtadar k 7 hansana bolna nhi hota.

A: Aap apne walid sahib ke saath akhlaaq ke saath pesh aao. Unki sakhti ki taraf dhiyaan ne do. Baaqi apne ghar waalo ke saath sulook aur ihsaan karo. Allah Ta`ala usji iwadh me dono jahaan me bohot bara badla dega.

And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.

 

Answered by:

Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)