Talaaq

Three talaaqs

Q: My husband and I have faced many issues with our marriage, so much so that he would shout out in anger and frustration 'divorce' many times. A scholar advised me that he has female emotions and tendencies so the power of him giving me divorce is taken away. (He gave me the example of a woman not having the power to give divorce due to her emotions), in which case is he allowed to marry again whilst he is married to me. If he doesn't have the power to divorce me due to his female tendencies, surely he can't have the power to marry more than once at any given time. I would be grateful for any advise.

Comparing one's husband to one's brother

Q: If a woman says to her husband "did you take your phone with you to the shower?" And the husband says "no why would I" then the wife says "my brother takes it" and the husband says "I'm not crazy like your brother". After the wife says my brother takes it she gets a little scared as she read online that comparing your husband eith your brother affects the nikah. She now is doubting if she was calling her husband brother or had any such intentions as she got scared and felt she had. She wasn't comparing she was just saying how a trait may have been similar. Has the nikah been affected? Does comparing your spouse to your brother affect the nikah.