Reconciling after khula
Q: I was in a nikaah for 2 years but no rukhsati had taken place and I hadn't touched my husband. I took khula from him and my iddah has ended. I want to remarry the person again, is it permissible?
Q: I was in a nikaah for 2 years but no rukhsati had taken place and I hadn't touched my husband. I took khula from him and my iddah has ended. I want to remarry the person again, is it permissible?
Q: I want to ask you a few questions before I make a decision about marrying a second wife. I am not satisfied with my marriage with my first wife. This is due to a lack of affection and neglect from my first wife. I have had this problem for 5 to 6 years now and I have tried to talk to my wife to resolve how I feel but nothing seems to better my situation, and I have now given up. I still care about my first wife and I still want to provide for her and our 3 children. I want to marry a second wife but I don't want to commit a sin. The UK law does not recognise a second wife. It is actually illegal in the UK to have a second wife, although it is fine to have a mistress. As I am aware that there is an Islamic ruling that I should abide by the law of the country that I reside in.
1. My question is, if I get permission from my first wife, and provided I fulfil both wives rights, will I be commiting a sin to have a second wife in the UK?
2. Does a divorce through the UK civil court break the Islamic nikah? (From my own research I have found that it does not break the Islamic nikah)
3. I have met a person from Morroco who has accepted to be my second wife, but to bring her to UK I have to first divorce my first wife through the UK civil court. Can I do this in order to bring my second wife into the UK? I do not want to break the nikah to my first wife.
Q: I want to divorce my husband. The reason is not that strong but I have lost love towards him. Maybe small and minute issues that stay deep in my mind are responsible. My question is whether I can divorce my husband without any strong reason?
Q: I divorced my wife once but I took her back into my marriage. Thereafter she became pregnant. Then she asked me for a separation (khula'). After giving her khula', now we would like to get married again knowing that she is 6 months pregnant. What is the procedure to follow?
Q: I had a fight with my wife and in anger, I told her that if you will do this work again you will be divorced on me.
My question is that if she does that work, will the divorce take place?
Q: One day me and my husband were quarreling. I said that, "you have ruined my life". Hearing that, he became angry and told me two or three times, "ok then, let's go to the Qazi and get a talaq". He did not have any intention to give me talaq or he did not say "talaq talaq talaq or I am giving you divorce". He just told me that to make me feel bad. In this case did the talaq take place?
Q: If a husband and wife didn't or couldn't physically have intercourse with each other for a long time (due to some illness or any other reason), will the nikaah be cancelled after 7 years?
Q: My wife was granted a faskh and now she is in iddah but we still have sex. Is the faskh still valid?
Q: Many times I fought with my wife and angrily my wife unintentionally said to me that she is going to leave my house. I also replied the same (ok you may go) but it was unintentionally and I knew that we both were not serious. Is this type of fighting considered talaaq? Please advice.
Q: I had an argument with my wife on some issue two years back. During the argument she used the words cursed (lanat) for the nikaah. I am wondering if it has any implication on my nikaah.