Janaazah

Q: I am a bit confused of the ibarat of Ahsanul fatawa (vol 4 pg 248) about (wetting the mouth and nose of a junubi mayyit) being fardh or mustahab?

Q: If I say that Allah must transfer my reward of Jannah eg. wives, friends to Prophet Muhammed (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) or someone else (something to the effect), will I be forgiven for it and my reward will not be transferred?

Q:

1. If the mahram of the mayyit is in the condition of janabat, what should they do in this case, because approaching the mayyit is not permissible?
2. The hadith on dying in the month of Ramadan, mufti sahib mentioned, is it the word of Nabi Kareem (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam)?
3. Covering the janazah of a woman. Some books mention a riwayat of Fatima (Radiyallahu Anha) gaving instructions to cover her janaza. Can it be located from the books of hadith?
4. In fatawa raheemiah (vol 7, pg 48) it is mention a hadith from bada’i us sanai that the prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) said to Umar (Radiyallahu Anahu) janazah salaah is not repeated. Can it be located from the books of hadith?
5. It is mentioned in a hadith : “The living cannot be guaranteed safety from fitnah (trials and tribulations) …” (Imdadul Fatawa, vol 5, pg 302). Can it be located from the books of hadith? 

Please give me the references from the books of hadith.

Q: 

1. A Hadith of reciting “minha khalaqnakum..” while throwing sand in the qabr is mentioned in mirqat vol 4 pg 189, please tell me how authentic it is?
2. The Hadith of Abu Hurayrah (Radiyallahu Anhu) mentioned in Muwatta Imam Malik (RA) about the way we hanafis perform janaza salaah (without surah fatihah), has any of the muhadditheen and fuqaha proved its authenticity?

Please give me the references from the books of hadith.

Q: Is it a sunnah to pour water over the graves when visiting or is it something of a tradition. Also, if it is sunnah, should it be done everytime or would it be better to do it seldomly since the graveyards are looked after with public money.

Q: Repeating the janazah salaah is not allowed. In fatawa raheemiah it is mentioned a hadith from bada’i us sanai that the prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasalam) said to Umar (Radiyallahu Anhu) janazah salaah is not repeated.

Q: Covering the janazah of a woman, how did it start?

Q: Is there any virtue mention in the hadith on dying in the month of Ramadan and the day of Friday?

Q: Is the extra wording “wa jalla thanauka’ in funeral prayers established from any Hadith?

Q: 

1. The qamees for the mayyit, please give me the proofs for it. It is mentioned in Saheeh Bukhari that there was no qamees in the kafan for Nabi Kareem (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam).
2. Abdullah ibn Umar once saw a shelter on a grave, and ordered it to remove it. He said that it is the good deeds of the person who put him away. (Saheeh Bukhari). Give me the page number. Please give me the references.