Q:
1. My mom is very innocent and sometimes takes decisions of some things which has more problems than solutions for us. When she tells me to do something then I do it because Allah says we have to obey our parents. Sometimes Abbu also shouts at me as to why am I doing such things. What should I do? Can I deny my mom or should I obey her?
2. People know that I listen to my mother, whenever and whatever work people want from me, they go directly to my mother and convince her and then my mother orders me to do that work. Sometimes I hate doing that work. Is there any chance of me denying my mom in these situations?
A:
1. If they are matters that pertain to her comfort and attention then obey her.
2. If you know that it is not related to your mother's comfort and service you do not have to carry out the instruction. However, show her respect.
And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best.
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