Eating and drinking Haraam

Q:

  1. Is there a hadith which says a person who eats or drinks haram, his dua and salah is not accepted for 40 days?
  2. After eating haram, if the person repents straight away will his dua and salah be accepted or it will still not be accepted until after 40 days?

Hadith Query

Q: I have seen this in posts but without any reference. Is it possible to get the exact text and where its from?

Jibrail (alaihissalam) once came to The Holy Prophet (Sallallahooalahi-Wasallam) and said Allah has given me the knowledge to count every leaf on earth,every fish in the sea, every star in the sky and every particle of sand on earth, but there's only one thing I cant count. Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) asked Jibrail (Alayhis Salaam) what is it? Jibrail (Alayhis Salaam) replied: When one of your Ummah recites Durood or salaams to you the blessing Allah showers upon him becomes impossible for me to count.

How should one explain to one's mother that what she is involved in is wrong?

Q: My mother is 60+ and everyday she sits on her laptop and phone chatting to various men/boys (some of them old enough to be her sons) although this does not interfere with her namaaz I still believe this is wrong! When I confront her about it, she get so upset and throws my mistakes in my face. She is on all the dating sites and chats to various men from around the globe! Please help! How can I make her undrstand that what she is doing is a sin as she doesn't see it that way?

Wife refusing to have relations with her husband due to him taking a second wife

Q:

  1. I want to know that if a muslim man does second marriage and his first wife says that since you have married for the second time I will not have physical relations with you, Does this mean Divorce?
  2. My second question is under such relation is the man bound to give equal time to both his wives?