Marital problems

Q: I have been married for three years and have two babies. My husband is abusive, drinks and might be having affairs as well. He says he wants this marriage to work but I can't live in Pakistan being born from UK as he takes advantage of me there. People say he is mad as the way he behaves makes my life very very hard to compromise. He has bipolar and shouts and fights without any real reasons. Please I would love him to be normal again. What should I do or read?

Husband telling the wife "when you were my wife"

Q: I write to you dear Mufti Saheb on behalf of a close family relative. The situation is regarding Talaaq. Some time ago he whilst having a discussion with his wife mentioned to her: "when you were my wife" I do not know in what context either jokingly or what but he does not recall the context but did not intend divorce, he has told her straight after this incident that if divorce had fallen he revokes it. Secondly, recently he had a heated argument with his wife in the car and told her angrily get out of the car and he recalls telling her numerous times if it would make you happy why don't you leave? However they are extremely happy currently and he would like to know what is the status with talaaq falling?

Names not found in the Quraan

Q: Kindly which names are Quranic and which are not?

Aaima  آﺋمه Leader, ruler

Afia عافیه good health, vigour

Alishba علشبه Lovely, Innocent, Pretty

Almira المیره Princess

Alveena Loved one, cared one, liked

Areeba اریبۃ Wise

Areefa عریفه Learned, expert

Batool بتول A true devotee woman of Allah.)

Dua دعا  Pray

Hadiya  ھادیه   Guide to righteousness; fem. of Hadi leader.

Origin:Arabic=Meaning:Allah Ke Rehmat=The name Abrish:

Abqurah Genius

Ad’ifaah Smart, talented

Adeena  Pious, good luck

Afizah  A person who knows the recital of the qur’an

Ahdia   Unique, The One

Alesha  Protected by god

Zerina  Princess, Smart, Inteligent

Zoya    Loving & caring, Alive, life and joyous

Daria   Learned, knowing

Esha’al Protected by god

Faekah  Wise

Insha   Creation, origination

Jannah  Heaven, paradise

Jannat  Heaven

Mahdiya Rightly Guided By Allah

Mahira  Highly skilled, Expert

Manal   Attainment, achievement

Muhita  2 "Encompassing", "aware of", "knowledgeable about"      

مُحِيْطَة       Muheetah

مُحِيْطَة       Muheetah

Romeesa Heavens beauty

Shahnoor        Royal Glow

Shahzana        Princess married to a king

Shanum  Allahs blessing, dignity

Aali    4       "High", "sublime"       عَالِي  `Aali

Muntaha 3       "Ultimate goal", "ultimate destiny", "final destination"   

مُنْتَهَى       Muntaha

Hunafa  2       "Ones who are devoted to God", "ones who believe in God's oneness"        حُنَفَاء

Hunafaa

Ola     2       "Highest"       عُلا    `Ulaa

Marib   1       "Goal", "aim", "purpose"        مَآرِب  Ma'aarib

Minhaj  1       "Path", "way of life", "curriculum"     مِنْهَاج        Minhaaj

Man-tasha-u jisay chahay

Man-Yasha-u jissay chahta hai

Shifa   4       "Cure", "recovery"      شِفَاء  Shifaa'

I have checked on internet but the answers are confusung....! please guide me

Cheating on one's wife

Q: I cheated with my wife by sleeping with another women. My wife came to know about it. She says if I say it's true then she wants talaaq. Should I lie to her that it's not true and continue with our marriage or should I tell her the truth.

Inheritance

Q: I have a question regarding inheritance. If someone could please kindly answer. I would be most grateful. A father has 5 children, 3 sons and 2 daughters. His house is in his ownership. he makes a verbal arrangement amongst some family members that this house belongs to one of his sons, although by law he does not transfer the ownership of the house to that son during his lifetime. The mother insists that even though the father is still alive , the son to whom the house is promised after the fathers death must pay his younger brother his share of the value of the house. Regarding the 3rd remaining brother it is verbally decided that he will not receive any share of the value of the house as his parents have already financially helped him. Furthermore it is agreed that the two daughters will not inherit and they both verbally express they forgo their right of any inheritance in favour of two of their brothers. If you could please give me the Islamic ruling on the validity of all this.

Sighting the moon with a telescope

Q:

1) Kindly explain why Shari'at would allow the aid of spectacles to sight the moon but not the aid of a stronger medium like a pair of binoculars?

2) Kindly explain why the sighting of the moon from the Mount Everest at 8.8 km above sea level would be acceptable but not from an aircraft flying at a lower altitude of 5 km above sea level?