Marital problems

Q: I have 2 questions. Please may I have a dua to get rid of panic attacks. I am scared all the time and I don't know why? I read surah naas etc. My second question, I need a dua to help me live a nice life with my husband who doesn't live with me for the last 7 years. I want him to be a husband and care for me, support me and not leave me like he does. Please help me. I am a very stressed and depressed woman who reaches out to Allah every day. I contacted some websites, they came back and said I have a saya and that's why I suffer from panic attacks. Maybe I suffer as my husband doesn't support me and living alone has made me so stressed. Does that not count? I just want some duas, some say read darood tanjina, some say don't? What do I do? I want to be panic attack free. I want to be able to breath, to live, to be happy. Is that too much to ask for?

Stray thoughts

Q: I feel that a person will come and take me away from Islam. He will misguide me and I will be misguided. I am so scared ( afraid) that I will loose my faith and a misguided person will come and misguide us. I don't know what to do? It's too complicated for me.

Opinions and comments of people

Q: Sometimes I realize this bad feelings from people about me and I sometimes simply don't know why, I feel guilty when nothing simply happens to me and I just have this strange look and behavior that I myself don't like about me  and also I just feel low about myself. I am so confused. Its is creating confusion in me and it is causing people to think and feel different things about me. Please is there any duah or thing I can do Islamically?

Bid'ah practices

Q: Please help me with a dilemma that I have encountered since my recent second marriage to a most amazing man with two children whom I love and treat as my own. I have encouraged the youngest child to start reading his salaah albeit one a day only. The problem is that they are caught up in strange rituals that I do not understand nor that I wish to be part of.

1. The many meeladhs that they conduct with salami being recited at the home of relatives.

2. The mother of the 2 boys has requested that they get green strings during the time of Muharram to wear on their wrists?

Should I be quiet and pray that Allah (Ta'ala) guides them if this is wrong? I feel as if this is going to cause my husband and I to become distant because of our differences. Please tell me what I should do. Jazakallah khair.

Husband going for one year jamaat

Q: A sister is asking that her husband wants to go for jamaat for one year and she can't even stay away from him for two months without being close to him at night. She does bad things alone without her husband when he is not there. She can't control herself. She tried to fast but because of her health her doctor told her to eat. She is very weak.

Marital problems

Q: A sister is saying that her husband is not coming close to her at nights and that whenever she ask him he refuses. He wasn't like this before. He doesn't show any interest in her. She has two babies. It's been more then many months now. She says that she starts to feel that its something in her that maybe is unattractive. She said she feel shes is not married. She makes food and takes care of her children and also cleans the house. Her husband is only on the phone, don't like her to even hug him, says stay away. She misses her days back when they were newly married. He don't even like to sit and talk to her.