People who consume alcohol drinking from one's utensils

Q: I have asked this question before but I was still in some doubt. I live in a country where people openly drink and if my friends and all use my glasses and spoon after drinking should I consider them impure. I'm getting paranoid over this issue. Also if after drinking they have eaten or had drunk water and then they use my utensils will they still be impure. When we wash impure utensils in sink we usually don't see any impurity but it's just water that splashes from washing. Should we Consider that water impure. A dry particle from private part discharge fell on carpet. The carpet was dusted where that particle probably fell on floor The floor was then mopped. Should I consider the floor clean or is it impure as it was mopped. Due to this I cannot pray.

Marital problem

Q: My husband refuses to find a job and has not been working for the last 2 years. He spends his days sleeping and watching TV. He also has a tendency to lie about everything and incurs debts behind my back. Is this a valid reason for talaaq?

Doing a wrong to win someone’s heart

Q: On a recent tour of the UK a certain aalim posed for a photo with Amir Khan, a boxer, who participates in a Haraam music-promoting sport, and whose satr is exposed due to his profession. This nakedness would particularly be the case at weigh-ins before bouts where, I believe boxers would strip down to just their underpants. All this is in the name of winning the hearts of dunya celebrities so that they come on to Deen and start doing the work of Dawat and Tabligh. This irks my conscience as I cannot imagine that Nabi Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam would condone the sins of a man by posing with him in a photograph in order to win his heart and spread love. Furthermore, allows himself to be videoed in a Masjid during his talks. Women attend at night, in many cases without their Mahrams. It is naive to think that Maulana doesn't know this happens in a country like UK. Is there any justification whatsoever in Shariah for this aalims actions?