Various masaail of Nikaah

Q: I have a question regarding sending a marriage proposal. In Islam, does the marriage proposal have to come from the boy's party or can the girl's family send a proposal to the boy?

Q: One of my relatives is buying second hand jewellery which has been used by his sister. He wants to give the jewellery to his future wife when they get married without telling her that it is not new jewellery. Is this acceptable in Islam?

Q: Inshallah, my nikaah is after two months:

1. Is it correct to write or print my brides name on the walima invitation?

2. Can we just write "daughter of ( her father's name)"? 

Q: Is it compulsory for a girl to live with her mother and father in law ?

Q: I recently was asked to speak to a young man who wanted his mother to divorce her second husband. Whilst there were many valid reasons put forward as to why this divorce should go through, one statement was made which I do not fully comprehend. The son mentioned that when a woman re-marries, she will be in Jannah with the last man she was married to. Is this correct? In this case the woman was widowed as her husband was shot and killed in a robbery. The woman , no doubt , still has a lot of love and feeling for her late husband. They seem to be concerned about her ending up with her first husband in Jannah and hence justify the divorce from the second husband.Please advise.

Secondly, what is the Islamic viewpoint regarding making conditions on a person before nikah? For example, the woman will not fulfill conjugal rights or the woman will stay closer to her family instead of her in laws. Please advise.

Q: Is it permissible to make nikaah just to satisfy one's natural desires if the man and woman are both ok with the terms? If not can you please explain? 

Q: Husband being 50 years of age stops sleeping on a separate bed and not with the wife while the wife being young desires being intimate. What can be the solution? This is a regular custom in the area that when the couples are older they start sleeping in separate rooms but the wife doesn't like to sleep separately.

Q: I'm getting married inshallah after two months, please suggest me some good book which is helpful for me and my bride for our married life, covering body neatness, marriage rituals and manners after marriage. Please send a PDF or a website link of those books so that I can download.

Q: If a person fears fornication and also fears not giving his spouse her rights what would be the ruling of marriage for him?

Q: What is the ruling of marriage for the woman who understands the seriousness of the husbands rights and fears that she will not be able to give him his rights?