Masaail relating to intimacy

Marital intimacy

Q: I am a 48 year old married woman. My husband is 52 years old. With regards to marital intimacy, my husband is extremely lacking. What are my
rights as a Muslim wife? I have needs and am very unhappy.

Husband masturbating the wife

Q:

  1. If the wife is not fully satisfied after sexual intercourse, will it be permissible for the husband to use his hand and masturbate the wife so that she may be satisfied?
  2. Is it permissible for the husband to masturbate the wife whilst she is in her menses? Can he touch the private parts with his hands without a covering on her private parts?
  3. Will ghusl be fardh on the wife after masturbation?