Advice

Q: I'm having problems with my marriage and I told all my problems to one Mufti who lives in Ajmer, India. I met him online. I have very serious problems in my family. So Mufti Arfaz says that wazifa won't solve all problems and He told me that he has to sacrifice a goat for me. He will go at night to graveyard and sacrifice the goat there, but he needs money for the goat. After I sacrifice the goat, I will get married within 48 hours. But my family found out that I tried to send money to Mufti Arfaz and I told them what he told me. They said that whatever he does is haraam. Even though his methods really work. They tell me not to speak to him and my dad fought with him. My parents just can't understand my sitiation that I'm helpless. But who is right Mufti Arfaz or my family?

Q: I am a revert Muslim and have been married for 6 years. Its been 6 months that my husband is seeing another girl and recently moved in with her a month ago. He comes home now and then just for an hour or so and keeps telling me his coming home and that he loves me. Please help me. The night I caught him with the girl, he was hiding behind the door. When I got him behind the door he laughed at me and I was so shocked Ya Allah his body was there but the head on the body was not his that just smiled at me. I am sad, heart broken and have two kids and don't know what to do. Please guide me and let me know what I can recite to bring him back home. This is not my husband the way he is now, he was a house person and always had time for his family and kids. We love him and miss him a lot. I believe with what I saw on his body that something like black magic has been done to him to keep him away from his family. Please help me.

Q: My mother often spoke some harsh things to my wife. I came to know these things from my wife later. What should I do in this case? As far as I know I can't not tell my mom that you are doing wrong. Please tell what should I do?

2. I and my wife decided that my Sala (wife's brother) will remain with me , but my mother told me don't do this. This is a wrong decision. In this case, what should I do?

Q: Please help me out with verses for success in exam for a child having difficulty to interpret and comprehend exam questions. He has a problem putting it to paper. I got all the other duas for exams. Is there any verse he can keep with him in his bag when writing?

Q: I am in love with someone. I think about that someone all day long. Neither I can study nor can I do other things properly. I am in great trouble. Please help me by telling me a wazifa to help me forget him.

Q: I have been getting shaitaani waswasas for a while now. I have read some duas and prayed to Allah for protection. But in a day I keep getting them 3-4 times. And these waswasas are so bad that I will prefer dying than speaking of it. I am very afraid. I am afraid that I may commit shirk or kufr if these waswasas keep coming in my mind. Please help me in this matter. Provide me some ways to get out of this situation.

Q: A person works as a career and visits elderly people to give them medicine and make sure they take it. Is it permissible for him to visit elderly women for this purpose? Or will it be considered khalwa despite them being elderly?

Q: I have a problem and it's hard. I really can not handle this feeling anymore. I really try to focus on salaat and dikr. But it is not enough. I have no one to talk to besides Allah Ta'ala. I want to get married and I even tried muslim dating sites. After some emails I met someone he told me that he wants to come home. I told my mother after couple days. He said I could never be his wife but he liked me and he wanted to date me more. I didn't do anything with him so I got scared and broke the contact with him. It was the little hope I had that was destroyed and I feel angry and sad and stupid. My father is in bad health he can't search for me and my brothers also can't because they dont have the time. So I am forced (thats what i feel) to date men only with the intention to get married. But they want other things and I can't do that. Am I weird not wanting sex. They call me old fashioned And they say they dont trust me because I am almost 31. I just can't take this anymore. I don't have someone I can ask for advise. Please give me yours. I don't want anything just some advice because I don't know why I am here and why I feel so much pain. It really kills me inside. I want to end this. I know these days are hard to do things in a halaal way but when halaal is really hard I am afraid I will do haraam.

Q: I am a divorced woman. My question is about courting in Islam. What is the steps one should follow when considering courting? I want to follow a correct procedure as when I got married before, my father did not allow any courting. Should the guy want to see me he was to come home, as a result I barely knew him and ended up abused and divorced a year later. Please advise.