Advice

Marital problems

Q: I'm married to a Egyptian who is also married in his country. I have just found out he's married 6 years already. My Question is he is not being fair in nafqa with her an me and there's also a lot of other problems. I have just recently discovered that I can have him deported back to his country but do I do it or do I just leave him and make sabr for the sake of Allah Ta'ala? I'm so scared to do something but he really is not treating me with fairness.

Woman phoning a man and asking him to marry her

Q:  A woman proposed to me to mary her directly on the phone as she used to dream that we are getting married and requested me if I would not marry her she will remain unmarried and  her feeble and crying voice made me to think of her and it is first time in my life that I talked with a
na mehram girl. I know her she is mashallah a very pious woman and due to fear of any mischief I changed my mobile number but my family will not accept it and I am suffering from tension and sleepless night. Now what should I do?

Being uncomfortable around one's in-laws

Q: My father in-law is a very arrogant man and he likes bossing people around. He also swears a lot- I just can't get myself to stay in the same room he is in. I feel very uncomfy because my parents never swore in front of us and never did they shout at us  and many a times he complains about me
that I don't speak to him. He even told my husband that I'm rude and have no respect for him. I am a very happy person but since I got married most
things I say he will find a problem with so I just stopped talking when I go to their place. I don't mean like I don't speak to them its more like I will
only speak when they ask something. I feel very out of place at their place as I'm the only daughter in-law. My mother in-law again likes speaking out of turn and will tell people we don't come to them and I don't want them to see the grand kids. We see them once a week. I'm a housewife with no transport and my husband works late and its awkward with small kids at night to go out. He sees his dad everyday as they work together. What do I do in this case? I so many times have the urge to confront them but I just hold back because it would be disrespectful.

Premarital affair

Q: I have been going out with a Muslim guy for a while. We shared a lot of things and I love him. I'm positive he loves me too. His parents say they heard some things about me and they won't say who told them but they don't want their son to be with me. In Islam what should have happene? I
mean he decided to make his parents happy and leave me after everything we've been through with each other. I need a point of view from someone who would know please advise.

Wife wants her own space

Q: Before my marriage, my in laws seperated a section of their house for me. It is a complete seperate house, with my own kitchen etc. However, when I just got married I used to cook with my mother in law because my husband had just started working and we didn't have a fridge/freezer ect. Now it is over one year and I have everything I need, but my husband refuses to allow me to cook on my own. I have a good relationship with my mother in law الحمد الله but I feel I need my own space. He says that I'm just being difficult and since I don't have any major problems with her its un-necessary. Please advise. Is it wrong of me to want my own space?