Advice

Q: Am I wrong to feel hurt and upset when my husband who claims to be innocent at home is over friendly when meeting female family members or
friends of mine outside. He also likes to play around and touch, poke, prod my mother, sister in law, cousins and thinks he's just playful and innocent and thinks nothing of it. I see more to his behaviour and feel disgusted. He even accidently bumps into females but I know its on purpose. What is wrong with him? Or am I wrong for being so angry and hurt?

Q: I am pregnant again early stage seven weeks. The last pregnancy I had a very bad one. My daughter was born with a chromosome problem and I was in hospital for a year and I had to leave my other four children. Please tell me what to do because I don't want to be put in the same situation.

Q: I'm married to a Egyptian who is also married in his country. I have just found out he's married 6 years already. My Question is he is not being fair in nafqa with her an me and there's also a lot of other problems. I have just recently discovered that I can have him deported back to his country but do I do it or do I just leave him and make sabr for the sake of Allah Ta'ala? I'm so scared to do something but he really is not treating me with fairness.

Q: I am suffering from a big problem. My brain thinks wrong about Islam and many other things. What should I do? I remain upset and under tension.

Q:  A woman proposed to me to mary her directly on the phone as she used to dream that we are getting married and requested me if I would not marry her she will remain unmarried and  her feeble and crying voice made me to think of her and it is first time in my life that I talked with a
na mehram girl. I know her she is mashallah a very pious woman and due to fear of any mischief I changed my mobile number but my family will not accept it and I am suffering from tension and sleepless night. Now what should I do?

Q: My family is very well aware that I do not take pictures, but my mother does not respect my request and happily clicks away, taking pictures of my kids. How do I ask her to please stop.

Q: I got thyroid disease because of this I am getting my periods late. Please tell me a dua to cure this disease.

Q: My father in-law is a very arrogant man and he likes bossing people around. He also swears a lot- I just can't get myself to stay in the same room he is in. I feel very uncomfy because my parents never swore in front of us and never did they shout at us  and many a times he complains about me
that I don't speak to him. He even told my husband that I'm rude and have no respect for him. I am a very happy person but since I got married most
things I say he will find a problem with so I just stopped talking when I go to their place. I don't mean like I don't speak to them its more like I will
only speak when they ask something. I feel very out of place at their place as I'm the only daughter in-law. My mother in-law again likes speaking out of turn and will tell people we don't come to them and I don't want them to see the grand kids. We see them once a week. I'm a housewife with no transport and my husband works late and its awkward with small kids at night to go out. He sees his dad everyday as they work together. What do I do in this case? I so many times have the urge to confront them but I just hold back because it would be disrespectful.

Q: I am in love with a girl, but our parents are against it rightly so. I have told the girl that we should marry the person whom our parents choose and I have told her that by doing this we will meet in jannah. Can she be my wife in jannah as I am leaving her only for Allah's sake?

Q: I have been going out with a Muslim guy for a while. We shared a lot of things and I love him. I'm positive he loves me too. His parents say they heard some things about me and they won't say who told them but they don't want their son to be with me. In Islam what should have happene? I
mean he decided to make his parents happy and leave me after everything we've been through with each other. I need a point of view from someone who would know please advise.