Q: I am a student and I have my friends in my room who were my friend since my last 10 years but now we have some clashes and an extreme hatred have come between us. Now I have the power to remove them from my room. Now please tell me some reasonable solution? Also give me reference to the solution.
Q: I had a girlfriend who lured me in to physical relationship. I kissed and saw her breasts but never saw her private part or had intercourse with her. She saw my private parts and masturbated me. This happened five times and then I realised the great sin we committed. We decided to get married but her family refused with threats. I cut off all contacts with her. I cried a lot, repented a lot in Ramadhaan during the nights and went for Umrah especially to repent deeply and prayed for a pious virgin woman. I got married to a 20 year old girl on 27th Ramadhaan 2013.
Before marriage I got some info about her physical relationship with a boy and asked her directly by swearing on Qur'an and her father. She refused the allegations and said that they were just class fellows and there was nothing serious. After Nikaah I observed that she was not a virgin and hence I was in constant doubt that may be the information before marriage was true. After 3 months of marriage I logged in her facebook profile for the first time to make some settings for her and found her old messages in 2012 to her sister expressing sever remorse, shame for committing zina with the boy who promised to marry but left her. She wanted to die but her sister suggested to get married.
Q: If a person suffers from a severe disease such as double-kidney failure, cancer or a similar painful disease, and this disease led to his death, then will this sickness be regarded as a punishment from Allah Ta'ala on account of his sins?
Q: Three months before I got a son. But my son has no right ear. The right ear got microtia very little meat there like peanuts. The hearing in the right ear is also effected. I want to know why was my baby born with this defect? What does Islam say? My wife and I were doing wazifas to have a son. All reports during pregnancy were fine. Please tell me why God give me an abnormal son? Did I commit some Gunaah due to which Allah Ta'ala is punishing me?
Q: I wanted to ask something related to my health and mind. It's been more then a year I am obsessed with the thoughts of death 24/7. It's in my mind and I am not able to relax. Every time I think about death and then I get dreams where I hear someone dying or I am going to graveyard or something like this and I get more scared. My life is ruined. Everyday I cry because I get stomach aches, headaches and every time I think that I have got some major disease. Can you please tell me what is it and how to get out of it? I will be very thankful to you.
Q: I am a non Muslim married lady and have a kid also. I want to ask a question that what should I do if my husband is not fulfilling his responsibilities like as in he is busy in his job and life, busy with gadgets, mobile laptops. I have my in laws and my kid to be looked after so ultimately all the responsibility comes on me looking after kid, in laws and managing all household chores. My husband don't give me money also as per the requirements so I have to do a job also. So I want to have an answer from you what should I do?
Q: Is it permissible that a boy and girl after engagement talk on the phone or on skype?
Q: My father has a house on mortgage, is it permissible for me to live in it? My father gets upset everything I try to talk to him and say its haraam and try to get him out of it. What should I do in this sort of condition?
Q: I am 28 years and suffering from alergetic Asthma since 2004 and now I am doing a job as a teacher and related with the Tablig Jamaat. Now my family is forcing me to marry but I am afraid to get married as I am comparatively weak internally but I look like a healthy man, so no one believes me to be a weak man. What can I do? Please advise me.
Q: I was in my bed suddenly a thought came to me that have you said to someone you are not married? I don't think I said so. I know these are waswasas but they don't leave me. Can I take bait?