Advice

Q: My father has a house on mortgage, is it permissible for me to live in it? My father gets upset everything I try to talk to him and say its haraam and try to get him out of it. What should I do in this sort of condition?

Q: I am 28 years and suffering from alergetic Asthma since 2004 and now I am doing a job as a teacher and related with the Tablig Jamaat. Now my family is forcing me to marry but I am afraid to get married as I am comparatively weak internally but I look like a healthy man, so no one believes me to be a weak man. What can I do? Please advise me.

Q: I was in my bed suddenly a thought came to me that have you said to someone you are not married? I don't think I  said so. I know these are waswasas but they don't leave me. Can I take bait?

Q: What is the solution for negative thinking, inferiority complex, drowsiness, irritation?

Q: Is it recommended for children to obey parents in marriage as they are opposing the children?

Q: I am 27years old going on 28 soon inshallah and am not married and my parents never talked to me about it and I never asked too. My question is that can I ask them why they never said anything to me about it and did they ever try to find someone or should I just keep quite and don't ask because I am really confused and this is upsetting me?

Q: I have one of my known she is a non muslim. She is married and have a kid also. She have asked a question that what should one do if one's husband is not fulfilling his responsibilities like as in he is busy in his job and life busy with gadgets mobile laptops. Now the lady has in laws and her kid to be looked after so ultimately all the responsibility comes on her looking after kid, in laws and managing all household chores and everything related to relatives and all. He doesn't also gives money as per the requirements so that lady has to do job also. I suggested to her to embrace Islam because that is the only way one can get solutions for everything and one can be successful in this life and the life of the hereafter. So I want to have an answer from you so that I can pass on the correct thing to this lady.

Q: I want to discus something very important. My brother wants to marry a girl whose from another country and of a different caste. My parents are not willing. I want some quranic verses so that my brother can agree to marry a girl of the same caste?

Q: Some people are backbitting me and teasing me on my shortcomings and let each other know about my ayaibs, when they meet me this thing hurts me and causes severe pain to my emotions. I am generally a quite person and don't say anything or reply, this is a kind of fitna which I am going through. Please Advise me on this matter.

Q: We have a family doctor who is a female. My wife is satisfied with her treatment. She is qualified and taking care whenever we need. I am also satisfied with her but since she is a female and sits with us in order to administer the treatment when we get sick, and during conversation I have to face her which is hard to avoid, I am hesitating and concerned about the Shari'ah, what it directs us in this matter? Should I find another male doctor or I can continue with her? Please Advise me in this matter?