Q: In Islam we are encouraged to visit relatives etc. How should one do this if most of the relatives are not purdah conscious and the lady relatives are probably going to try and talk to you when visiting. Should one try to visit these type of people or avoid going to these homes?
Q: Me and my husband are saving money to buy a house. We live in a rented house at the moment in Australia. Sometimes I am confused whether we should save money to buy house, vehicle, etc or donate the money saved to the needy people and live our life in the rented property. Can money be saved to buy a house or we need to give it to the needy, I am confused. Jazakallah for the reply. Thanks.
Q: I would like to know how should one conduct himself in such a situation. A man was offered a job. Before he started work he informed the employer that he is studying and will need to write exams. We agreed on giving him off for the days he will be writing. He's cousin was getting married in another town he ask he employer for the weekend off but was told he cant get the weekend off. Or he must come to work
on Friday and Saturday till 11:00. Friday morning he sent a message that the lift was going and he no other lift. For the 1st month or so he was coming to work approx 30 to 45 min late. He's friend passed away he took early leave to go to the hospital and the next day because he had to go to another town. It is peak season at the moment and we were receiving a delivery. He never inform the employer that he's going for janaaza out of town the next day he never call to say he not around and knowing that theres lots of orders for him to despatch. The employer calls to find out where he is he says he is 4 hours away. Few days ago he had to go early because he's wife was sick. Other workers feel we are favouring him because we are of the same nationality. Workers who are with us longer have never taken so many days. Please advise me as what I should do?
Q: I have some problems, first of all I am a perfect girl but not getting married. I have performed several wazaif for it but there was no effect. My age is 26 now. Secondly I have started my MPHIL but I have not completed instead of my hard work. I am in search of a good job but I have not yet found anything. Please tell me some wazaif for solution of my problems. Please also pray for me, I am greatly worried.
Q: If any difficulties come in life, is that because of our deeds (amal)?
Q: I just want to know if this is bad or good. I'm going 10 days to Malaysia for holiday before going for jamaat, then I'm going to for 40 days to India. I'm going to stay until the jhor?
Q: I am fond of eating food three times a day e.g. breakfast, lunch and dinner and in between these meals I eat some kind of snacks like sandwiches or samoosas etc and I am doing this for a very long time and it has become a habit. I feel shamed and regret for what I am doing but this thing has become so habitual that upon trying to quit I cannot, I can just control for one or two days and again I do the same. Is this a sinful Act? Please advise on this matter.
Q: I live in a town about 50km away from my parents. I stay with them every weekend and try to do as much as I can to please them. My mother plans on going to do my sisters confinement in Joburg for a week. She wants me to come and stay with my father and younger brothers for that week. I must close my afternoon Madrasah for that week and cover up the lost time during the weekends. I must also leave my husband and tell my mother in law to cook etc for him for that week. My husband feels that this is unreasonable. I want to please him but I also want to please my mother. Who has more right over me and how can I resolve the issue without offending my husband and my mother?
Q: I am nowadays in financial crisis and have to pay a lot of debts. I am a Muslim but yes i admit that I have made a lot of sins and mistakes that I did not pray 5 times, now when I am in crisis I realised that it is all because I was gaafil from Allah. But now when I want to start salaah again with pure heart my friends says "If you are in trouble and you remember Allah it means you are in trouble" is it wrong if you realize your mistakes and you want to go to Almighty Allah?
Q: Mere 2 betiyan hain, ek 7 aur doosri 4 saal ki hey. Bachpan se hee neend main bohot zor zor se daant peesti hain jis ki waja se un ke daant ghis ker kharab horay hain. Mughy bohot pareshani hey. Log kehty hain ye nahoosat ke nishani hey, Ap batain main kiya karon kis tarah se en ki ye aadat khatam karon. Please mere madad karain.